As the title suggests, I have never bottomed before. Please pardon my ignorance..
The dilemma is that, I am rather tight but my partner is quite thick. Does anyone have any tips to make it hurt less or even how to get him in, in the first place? I have read about practicing with dildos. I haven't got access to dildos so I am now "practicing" with a hairbrush handle wrapped in cling film. Initially, even a finger up would be very uncomfortable but I think I am getting used to the feeling of something up there. Do I need to merely insert something up there and get used to that feeling or do I also need to simulate intercourse? Prior to entry, how do I make my rectum relax?
Does the feeling like you constantly need to poop disappear after a couple times of anal and if not, how do I make sure I don't poop during intercourse? I also read about using the toilet before and cleaning thoroughly.