Posts made by jb420

I have to plead guilty to doing this (or NOT doing it). but since I've read this post I've been better about thanking and rating.

@cutethai:

The first one that came to my mind is Johnny Rapid! A few names on your list too like Topher Dimaggio and Billy Santoro…

Yeah do a search for Johnny Rapid here on GT and you'll get like ten pages of results. There were some, duplicates, but definitely not that many. That guy's been busy!

I can understand why you'd think they be overexposed but the reality is they have to strike while the iron is hot.

Beauty fades over time and porn stars (with a few exceptions) don't tend to have really long careers so they do as much as they can as fast as they can to make that $$$ while they can.

I've no preference when it comes to porn. I have just as much BB stuff as "safe". The things is, hot sex is hot no matter if a condom is used or not, and bad sex is just bad. So it really makes no difference to me.

I think the longest I've ever went is about 3 week

I consider myself a collector. so do I watch everything I have? no I don't even know if it's possible. but if I see something from a studio or a performer that I like, I just have to have it. once I accidentally deleted almost half of my collection and I freaked the hell out (which maybe goes to your point about possession) even though I hadn't watched a lot of those videos in long time.

"better" is subjective. everyone is different and it depends on your own personal preferences. but yeah, if you haven't done it in a while sometimes it's better to hop on that way you're in control of the action and you can stop when/if it gets uncomfortable.

Sometimes….shit happens.

there are ways to avoid it (enema, douche, controlling your diet/when you eat) but yeah, sometimes sex can be messy and accidents happen.

Be persistent. Be confident. Get involved in your community. Volunteer for things that interest you, and you'll meet people with similar interests and maybe find mr right, or even mr right now.

Be clear and honest about what you're looking for and be open to meeting someone who maybe doesn't check off every box on your wish list.

Most importantly, don't be discouraged if it takes awhile or if you have a lot of dating disasters. You can learn a lot about what you want and don't want from those nightmare dates.

You are lucky in that you were always able to be yourself.

But I can relate to not having a "dramatic" coming out myself. I didn't make an huge emotional announcement at a family gathering.

What I did was change the status on my myspace page (remember myspace?) to : Gay.

that's how I came out. My reasoning was, it's on the internet for the whole world to see. I wasn't hiding it from anyone.

Now, some of my gay friends think I "cheated" in coming out that way. I don't know. I do understand not being able to relate to folks who had to do it another way.

Now, things were a little awkward for a while after that as I wasn't quite sure who knew or noticed or what. My family never really talked about it after. Maybe they were picking up on my sense of uncomfortability, not so much with my gayness, but in maybe not knowing how to talk about it with them.

I do know my sister saw it and told my mom and that's how my mom found out (but I think she already had suspicions from the time she caught me watching gay porn on the family computer).

I was living with my dad at the time, and I think he kinda had a clue at that point.

Was it a cop out? Maybe. But i'm not one for big dramatic moments and I hate it when things are all about me. I just want to live my life as quietly and drama free as possible.

Top 3:
Seth Rollins
Dolph Ziggler (which could also be a porn name)
Cody Rhodes

My sister caught me once when I was about 13. It was after school and I was horny, but I was also exhausted. I fell asleep(!) with my pants down and my hands on my junk. Which, I guess goes to show that at 13 I must not have been very good if I was falling asleep in the middle of a wank.

But I was mortified. She, of course, just had to tell the whole family what she saw including my grandmother.

Then, when I was older and had my own place my roommate caught me once. Just walked right on into my bedroom while I was on my knees sitting on a dildo and jerking myself. I took precautions after that. The door didn't have a lock so whenever I was getting busy with myself I'd move the dresser in front of the door to prevent interruptions.

And My current boyfriend has caught me once or twice, and I've caught him too.

Really, it's no big deal. Every one does it, even if they lie and say they don't. All those times I thought my dad was clueless as to what I was doing when in fact, he was probably doing the very same thing when he was my age.

I always put in on the married party because after all, they're the ones who took vows so if I sleep with a married man, it's on him, not me. I took no vows to be faithful. That said, I think it varies from person to person and marriage to marriage.

I can imagine circumstances where it is ok to sleep with someone who is married. That doesn't mean it's always okay, but it also doesn't mean it's always wrong.

When you're talking about things as complicated and complex as human relationships, absolutes won't get you very far.

I was "friend zoned" by this guy I had the hots for. I thought he was into me as well, but now I think he was just playing games. He knew I was into him and I think he liked the fact that he had that "power" over me. But I would spend the night with him a lot sharing the same bed (but never had sex). So in the morning when I got up to leave for work I grabbed a pair of his underwear that were laying on his dresser. I would wear them occasionally and, yeah, it was kind of a naughty kinky, thrill.

Then, you have those cases where you roommates laundry somehow gets mixed into yours. Without realizing it I was wearing my roommates underwear.

Can't think of a specific actor but sometimes when there is a "director" off camera speaking to or interviewing the performers. a lot of the early Active Duty movies are like that. The performers are hot and the sex is good, but then you get a creepy guy off camera you can't see but you can just imagine he's some fat, old troll type guy getting his jollies and it just ruins it.

"Normal" is, of course, relative.

To the people asking you to do those things, it IS normal.

It never hurts to ask. Does it make a difference? probably not, but I also don't find it annoying or bothersome when people ask. If you don't want to give points, don't give points.

If someone took the time to edit, upload and seed a file that it shouldn't be out of bounds to politely ask for some bonus points.

that's hot.

Usually only when I know I'll be having sex. the only other time is when it's time for laundry and I have nothing else to wear

Freeleeches help. Downloading popular torrents that have a lot of traffic just for the sole purpose of seeding them. If you haven't been voting on your torrent categories (torrents not yet voted), you can get points for that. I didn't realize you could and I went through and looked and I had 300 seed points just waiting for me just from that, which of course, you can use to help your ratio.

mostly though, just keep your torrents active. I have torrents I downloaded months ago, but they're still active. Even if they only seed a little bit every day, every little bit adds up.

you can upload and seed and yeah that helps, but its unnecessary. I've only uploaded one torrent and yy ratio is 1.4 and that's almost entirely from just downloading and seeding.