Posts made by hoohareturns

Like others have said… it's who you like and what attracts you.  It is normal to question that if you feel it's not right but you don't have to worry about that.  You're fine 

It's who you like and are attracted to.  I like chubbies and so that can include daddies out there.  It's the personality for me.  Yeah, that sounds so generic, but the personality is the thing.  The face is a secondary thing as I can go past that if I pick up on them being good people.

Very true…

The young guys really don't get that info because they may be blase about it.  At the same time many of the gay related places to go have had funding slashed or worse.  Those two together certainly don't help matters.

I'm a chubby chaser which makes that a bit obvious what attracts me.  However, if I sense their personality is not good or anything negative then they stop being attractive and become repelling.  To use the tired saying:  "It's not what's on the outside that counts but what's on the inside as well."

If they are massively religious then no way.  If they are those who have beliefs but are respectful of others then I would.  However, then the personality becomes important. If they're awful then religion is superfluous.

orange is my favourite colour

She was great.  Sisters Are Doing it For Themselves is a good one.  Jimmy Lee from the Aretha album circa 1986 is a good one, too.  Can't go past the RESPECT and songs like that.

My gaydar is dreadful.  Occasionally, though, it may wind up being right.  However, because it is so dreadful I never really act upon it.

I've tried watching straight porn but can't do it.  When I have it's with the volume turned down because of the OTT moaning they do.  The woman always says stuff like "give it to me big boy" or sound like seals on the beach.  Lesbian porn there's no way I could watch that.

That would then make  you a "gainer" where you want to get as obese as possible.  Chasers like me love how gainers get to an enormous size.  At the same time I could never be a feeder.  They're basically people who encourage obesity.  Strange contradiction I know but that's the way I feel.

The whole "Paul is dead" thing.  He was replaced by Billy Shears and there are all these clues apparently.  Some idiot doctored a video of George Harrison referring to Paul as Faul (the name given to the fake  Paul by the weirdoes) and people swallow that crap whole, too.  Of course Paul's voice will change.  That's what happens to guys as they get older.  Some of the theories are really out there with their "logic".

Yes I am.  Knowing that aspects of my life were wasted on some people.  Naturally dying scares the shit out of me too.  The anxiety attacks over that one are brutal.  Sometimes aging can be a bit of a no-no in sectors of the gay community.  At the same time I'd want nothing to do with those anyway.

A chaser is one who likes bigger guys.  They could be chubby, superchub, stocky, bear, etc…  As long as that person is large build like that, the chaser is interested.  Well, this one is at least 

I've always loved chubby guys and the chubbier the better but I would never be a feeder.  No thanks!!!  I don't really even play with their belly like many do.  Why am I a chaser, though?  It's an attraction, just the same as some guys like twinks or Asians or whoever.  I like the fact they are so big and always good to hug.  I do like wanking the chubby guys with their cocks against their bellies.  That's always nice.  I won't attach myself to any guy who isn't very nice, no matter how big he is, because that's always a turn off.

I'd love to be able to do that to a cabbie.  That would be fantastic.

I didn't lose friends after coming out.  What distanced me from people was the awful guy I partnered up with.  When he bit the dust, those people came back which was good.  True friends stay by you, though.  You're still the same person it's just this new thing they know.

And a real friend is there when the bumps in the road get too much.  You're better off without those who really didn't like you for you.  It hurts something fierce initially but later that burden you don't have to carry.

The only version I remember seeing online of that was where the video ended early and did'nt give us all the cumshots.  I can't remember the title, unfortunately.  I initially thought that was Pauly's Pizza Boys but I'm not so sure now.

Sometimes the GRUNT OOOOHHHH YYYEEEAAAAHHHHH stuff is just downright hilarious.  Especially the cum shots.  Some sound like they're in enormous pain rather than pleasure.  Hardly a turn on when you're trying not to laugh.  I turn the volume off and enjoy it that way, like another one said, like a silent movie.  But, yes, the exaggerated moaning is definitely a turn off.

I agree with the above comment.  We see the others as competition.  I wouldn't call it "hate", though.  At least not in my case.  I get annoyed but at the end of the day if the chubby guy prefers the other guy to me then I just have to go with that.  The chubby guy gets a say in it, too, and I think some chasers forget that aspect.  As you can tell from the comment above, I'm guilty of that  :hug: