My opinion about your friend being "straight" may offend you so, I'll try to keep it to myself (as much as I can anyway) . I'll give you a piece of advice though: you're saying you are friends with benefits and nothing more. As long as you're having fun with that just, do your thing but, if ever, a moment arrives that you're sensing that, you're starting to develop feelings for him, break it off immediately. You don't need that kind of drama in your life. Your friend has a lot of issues to resolve and unless you wanna stuck in quite an unpleasant situation, you better keep your distance. Good luck!

Just you wait… .The more society evolves...

@groovedware:

@danijelr15:

@geo88mag:

Again: We're talking about guys who pursue a career in gay porn industry. Guys who want to have sex with other men again and again and again. You know what? if you ever decide to question the sexuality of guys who perform in straight porn, maybe then, we can disquss it further (Oh! I'm sorry, i forgot!No one would ever dare to question the "normality" of those fine straight men.After all, since they're having sex with women, they must be straight, right? Of course, only when it comes to gay porn we actually must accept that the guys who perform, are "normal" straight men that are getting payed to pleasure us perverts, right?). If you want a reason for that concept (Straight for Pay) i can come up with one, probably just as obscure as the reasons for the whole "Gay for Pay" thing. You know…maybe to convince the guys who fantasize about seducing a straight guy that those men are actually straight (i think that's already a thing) or maybe, to satisfy some straight women's fantasy of seducing a gay guy (believe it or not, just like there are gay guys who find the idea of having sex with a straight guy, appealing, there are straight women who find the idea of having sex with a gay guy, just as much). Ofcourse that would be quite homophobic, you know? Promoting the idea that being gay is something that can be overcome and surpressed when you find the "right" woman, like the idea that no matter how much sex you have with guys, you should never and under any circumstances allow yourself to be identified as a gay/bi guy.So basically if you 're willing, for whatever reason, to accept and promote that guys who have sex with other men, are straight, then i 'm just as wiling to accept and promote that every guy (even the ones that perform in straight porn) is gay. See how much fun that logic can be?

Beautifully said. Thank you for showing some reason in these forums. :urock:

And this folks is why I often just avoid the forums.  High praise for what?  Reason?  It's like Tracy said "Give me one reason to stay here".  Can I turn off notifactions for this nonsense or do I have to just ignore it?

It seems that anyone's opinion that doesn't agree with your point of view, you consider it useless. Whatever, have a nice day.

@groovedware:

@geo88mag:

@groovedware:

@wohdin:

Haha, no.

And even for those few out there who DO identify as "straight", they're at the very least bi-curious. The word "straight" is basically just a marketing gimmick.

That is folks the unequivocal truth, straight is just a marketing gimmick, everyone is gay, he's just not into YOU!

Again: We're talking about guys who pursue a career in gay porn industry. Guys who want to have sex with other men again and again and again. You know what? if you ever decide to question the sexuality of guys who perform in straight porn, maybe then, we can disquss it further (Oh! I'm sorry, i forgot!No one would ever dare to question the "normality" of those fine straight men.After all, since they're having sex with women, they must be straight, right? Of course, only when it comes to gay porn we actually must accept that the guys who perform, are "normal" straight men that are getting payed to pleasure us perverts, right?). If you want a reason for that concept (Straight for Pay) i can come up with one, probably just as obscure as the reasons for the whole "Gay for Pay" thing. You know…maybe to convince the guys who fantasize about seducing a straight guy that those men are actually straight (i think that's already a thing) or maybe, to satisfy some straight women's fantasy of seducing a gay guy (believe it or not, just like there are gay guys who find the idea of having sex with a straight guy, appealing, there are straight women who find the idea of having sex with a gay guy, just as much). Ofcourse that would be quite homophobic, you know? Promoting the idea that being gay is something that can be overcome and surpressed when you find the "right" woman, like the idea that no matter how much sex you have with guys, you should never and under any circumstances allow yourself to be identified as a gay/bi guy.So basically if you 're willing, for whatever reason, to accept and promote that guys who have sex with other men, are straight, then i 'm just as wiling to accept and promote that every guy (even the ones that perform in straight porn) is gay. See how much fun that logic can be?

TL:DR or I just figured it was a waste of my time after you accused me of assuming guys in str8 porn are normal.  Are you for real?  I have a gay friend who only escorts for women, do you think ya i'm sorry i don't really care what you think.  Downvote me to the ends of the earth but this is just ignorant blather at this point.  I won't be a part of your assumptions.

My friend, i didn't accuse you of anything (but apparently you have a reason to believe i did-not my problem), i just stated the obvious: no one would ever question the sexuality of a guy who perfofms in straight porn, this happens only in gay porn, simple as that.How convinient that you know a gay guy who escorts only for women (you know there's nothing wrong with being bi).But as you said you don't care about my opinion (good for you) and i'm starting to lose any interest in yours.I am alot of things, ignorant is not one of them. I just happen to possess a mind that's liberated from stereotypes and fantasies of the past century. Anyway, just keep believing what you wish to believe, as long as you don't harm an innocent being,it makes little difference to me…

Adam Archuleta!!!
Man… That face, That smile, Those eyes, That body!!!
He sends me straight to heaven :cum: :cum: :cum:

@groovedware:

@wohdin:

Haha, no.

And even for those few out there who DO identify as "straight", they're at the very least bi-curious. The word "straight" is basically just a marketing gimmick.

That is folks the unequivocal truth, straight is just a marketing gimmick, everyone is gay, he's just not into YOU!

Again: We're talking about guys who pursue a career in gay porn industry. Guys who want to have sex with other men again and again and again. You know what? if you ever decide to question the sexuality of guys who perform in straight porn, maybe then, we can disquss it further (Oh! I'm sorry, i forgot!No one would ever dare to question the "normality" of those fine straight men.After all, since they're having sex with women, they must be straight, right? Of course, only when it comes to gay porn we actually must accept that the guys who perform, are "normal" straight men that are getting payed to pleasure us perverts, right?). If you want a reason for that concept (Straight for Pay) i can come up with one, probably just as obscure as the reasons for the whole "Gay for Pay" thing. You know…maybe to convince the guys who fantasize about seducing a straight guy that those men are actually straight (i think that's already a thing) or maybe, to satisfy some straight women's fantasy of seducing a gay guy (believe it or not, just like there are gay guys who find the idea of having sex with a straight guy, appealing, there are straight women who find the idea of having sex with a gay guy, just as much). Ofcourse that would be quite homophobic, you know? Promoting the idea that being gay is something that can be overcome and surpressed when you find the "right" woman, like the idea that no matter how much sex you have with guys, you should never and under any circumstances allow yourself to be identified as a gay/bi guy.So basically if you 're willing, for whatever reason, to accept and promote that guys who have sex with other men, are straight, then i 'm just as wiling to accept and promote that every guy (even the ones that perform in straight porn) is gay. See how much fun that logic can be?

It will never cease to astound me, how some people would consider me and others like me, narrow minded just because i don't accept the G4P lie. Is it because we ruin the whole "seducing a straight guy" fantasy (which, by the way i could never understand, i always considered it to be quite weird since, imo it is something that's either contrantctive or, and i apologize for the term, disgusting.I 'll expain myself if you like me to.) or they feel they are (or want to seem) more noble than the rest of us? You gotta love that in the name of "sexual freedom" the world managed to screw us over once more and some people don't even realize it (or they don't care). With the excuse of fulfilling some people's fantasy of seducing a straight guy they manage to promote the message that you can have as much sex with guys as you like but, at the end of the day you better return to your girlfriend/wife and kids and keep identify yourself as straight since its the only right and viable way for you to live your life and being gay/bi isn't.I totally agree that your sexuality is not determined by whom you're having sex with but, by whom you want to have sex with instead. And that's the point.These guys pursue a career in gay porn indusrty.It is something they want to do again and again. I consider the arguement "they do it for the money" just as solid as arguements like "a hole is a hole", "i was so horny" and many more (which i find ridiculous and offensive to real straight guys).If we actually believe thet money is enough of a motive for a straight guy to have sex with another guy then the straight porn industry wouldn't have a single guy left since everyone would rather prefer to work as a gay performer. We try to educate others that being gay is normal but i think we need to realize it ourselves first and stop accepting such examples as legit or desirable.

Thank you very much, i'm sure i will  ;D

160 Gayness, 65 Bisexuality, 70 Straightness, 0 Homophobia  ;D ;D ;D

They either trying to fool us (a staged situation or scene, which is often the case), or themselves (being so deep in the closet/denial), which is  pathetic or sad and dangerous (you decide)…