A friend of mine hired a callboy for this for a long term engagement (not to confuse with a houseboy arrangement).
In this friend's case it was his way to get back into the saddle after a serious heart operation and he experienced erectyle disfunction and serious trust issues in general.
For him it was something that helped him getting his groove back successfully.
Sorry to hear that. I wish him the best.
Please never try any of this shit. My 2 big addictions are internet and chocolate :cheesy2:
Bed of course! But that ended as long as I turned 18..
I am seeding 39 torrents but no one is interested in downloading them 
I enjoy it both doing it and getting it done to me!
I feel you, but I have to say that your options are limited.
Theoretically, one of the success keys in a relationship is honesty and communication. Considering this, you should probably talk to him and try together to find a common accepted solution… I know this is hard... I am not an alien. But this is the right thing to do, cause in a relationship you don't take decisions by yourself, but you decide with your partner.
Someone would respond: Ok, let him talk to his partner, but what could they do about it? What difference it would make? Well, as I said in the start, your options are limited.
One option would be to continue as friends, another option to change the relationship type to an open relationship. Terrible choices if you ask me, because I don't think it's easy if you love someone and share your life with him to end the relationship.. But there are no miracle solutions, is it possible that he would earn some weight again?
Anyway, I wish you the best, and sorry for not being of much help.
