Posts made by cwamoon

I've actually been having this issue myself, and after speaking with a few of my friends in the escorting business, have been trying out a few things.

My health is very good too; I'm fit, go to the gym 5-6 days a week, etc. Hormone levels are great at age of 24.
Despite what my doctor said too - that it's mental and psychological, I have to agree with what DIST is saying.

I will be very hard leaking buckets of pre-cum, and the moment 'pain' is involved, the boner dies.

I'm a small guy: 5' 5", Asian, 130Lbs. Living in the US, taking those dicks with this small body can be hard.. And I'm always super tight.
So apparently, I have to stretch myself out. It certainly has gotten a bit better, once I started learning how to properly prep myself to try to ease myself into it.

I discovered that being on top gives me more control on the pace, then learned to tease the top in the process so that it's not awkward.
I actually use a few butt-plugs to give my hole a pre-stretch the night before sex…

Apparently the goal is to have sex so regularly that I will be stretched out enough that I won't feel pain.
Not sure how to get there though.

Once tried sleeping with a butt-plug in. Horrible mistake. The lube was dried up by the morning obviously, and my hole was so tight and stressed that taking it out was one of the worst things I've had to do...  :blownose:

So. Apparently. It's about dilating your hole. There are sex toys out for that... I just lost my patience and said fuck it.

Boys. Sit. Down. I got dis  :cheers: :cheers:  :cheesy2:

I've always had combination skin. Too oily on the T-zone, but somehow breaking out in pebble beach patch of white-heads whenever I use anything to control the oil.

After years of trying everything out (All the major brands + the so-called acne-focused brands. Did you know even burtsbees has some questionable ingredients?) without success, as a last resort, I tried the hippy-dippy shit: all natural.

And my goodness. It worked. Now my friends refer to me as someone having exemplary clear skin…
The only "chemical" that I've kept is Benzoyl Peroxide in the morning, and a tiny tab of salicylic-acid-containing moisturizer at night.

My daily routine looks like this.

Morning:
-Benzoyl Peroxide cleanser, applied using finger and hands
-Witch Hazel and cold-pressed Aloe Vera, alcohol-free "toner." Spritz
-Burts Bees SPF 30 daily moisturizer (although not perfect, when it comes to sunscreen ingredients, they use the mildest)

Night:
-Tea Tree Oil and various essential oils with natural ingredients, applied and scrubbed using terry cloth
-Witch Hazel and Aloe Shit I mentioned above. Spritz
-Then I mix in my palm: a bit of cold-pressed 100% aloe vera juice which has grapefruit seed extract as the preservative, 1 small pump of cold-pressed argan oil, 3-4 drops of 100% Lavender Essential Oil, tiny dab of Neutrogena moisturizer with salicylic acid.

Of course everyone has different skin types.. But with most other conventional products, I noticed that it swings the "pendulum" too much because it works too quickly/strong on my sensitive skin. Rather, going the hippy route took longer, but actually managed to balance my skin.

Oh interesting…
Alright, well, here goes the contradicting recommendations....

When you have consistent depression (rather than incidental), you might want to look into your biological dispositions.
Aka Major Depression; which really isn't a major magnitude of incidental depression, but is categorized as a biological cause.

Meaning, some people have naturally higher levels of stimulants/neurotransmitters, while others have lower.
For example, people with major depression but might have a harder time getting up, and often don't remember the memories of their mornings.
Others do not have any trouble at all as long as they get enough sleep, and am fully awake-awake in the morning.

We all have our vices: some people love stimulant drugs like caffeine, nicotine, cocaine, adderall etc.
While others prefer depressants like Ketamine, Alcohol, G, etc.

The very reason different people find different substances "pleasurable" is because their brain chemistry is different.
If you have a deficiency, providing stimulants causes euphoria. If you have a surplus, further stimulation will cause "pain."

Ever wonder how there's some people that prefer and thrive in chaotic environments like a busy kitchen or a nightclub job, while others might get overwhelmed by the same environment? Also, some prefer to be in quiet cubicles, while others will kill themselves if they did.

Same thing.

For me, what has worked is pretty much the opposite of Moonmonday said...

• I NEVER let myself sleep. If I let myself sleep as much as my body claims to need, there's no end, and it usually brings me further down into depression. Instead, what I started doing was making sure I sleep a certain amount of hours. Also, going back to a normal and regular sleep schedule, rather than 7am-4pm kinda deal certainly helped.

• Sunlight. Kinda goes in hand with the above. It helped me regular my sleep schedule, especially during the winter.

• Vitamin D. Especially if you live in an area without much sun, or you are an indoor person, etc.

• General supplementation.

• Exer-the fuck-size. The ONLY thing that has really worked of me, is exercising. I would be drowsy as hell, no drive, no appetite, just feeling meh. Then I hit the gym, and afterwards, somehow I'm all chirpy and feeling like I'm down to do shit.

Well….
I've been getting laser hair removal treatments. Full Brazilian, so that's one thing.. (haha)
I take a shower, and do douche about 4-6 times repeatedly. Sometimes I get exhausted just from the preps...