Posts made by cosmicjester

not played it but the clips i've seen on youtube outlast the whistleblower scared the s*** out of me

a vibrator and a nexus prostate massager

I dated a retired pornstar/ escort a while back. He was a really nice guy but had some very obvious body issues and was bit to much of a party boy for my liking. It was fun but we werent right for each other.

it will vary on country and legislation

when I was 25 I dated a guy 17 years older than me. He was very successful, and in fashion publishing. I made a big thing about paying my own way because I was worried that people would think I was there for the money. He broke up with me in the end as he said he didn't find 60 year old men attractive, and i won't at his age either. Broke my heart at the time, but now with the best man ever whose 4 years my senior.

straddling is the best, and it may take time to get used to but have fun thats what matters

when i first stared to bottom i didn't get hard, but when i started to enjoy as I did it more I got erections.

No, too risky

Lots of Lube, take it slow, be aroused, want to do it and try with fingering first. Be patient and gentle, and relax.

love them  :cheers:

Hi Have you tried it? I used it once when a condom burst. In the UK its available on the NHS. Not the most pleasant experience but not a horror story like lots of people have said

There has been no scientifically proven link between oral sex and HIV, however there has been many cases of anechdotal transmission. Pre cum can contain the HIV virus, but depends on viral load and the quantity of precum. its best to speak to a sexual health advisor, good websites are aidsmap and terrence higgins trust.

If you are concerned about HIV and oral sex a read of a 10 year study in Spain between a group of couples heterosexual and homosexual in which one was HIV positive and the only form of sex was oral and in some 20,000 oral sexual encounters receptive and active no transmission was found. However oral hygenie may also be important