@raphjd Agree. Maybe end "trans panic defense" and "trans lying offense", as related pair.
Self-defense claims are based 1. proportionality, 2. how "average reasonable person" should perceive threat level, BUT, 3. jury allowed to decide both.
If someone gets raped by force, can they kill attacker? Why? or why not? or when? at what point?
If someone is raped by deceit / fraud - When does that crime, and ethically it is crime, rise to level of being raped by force?
Or, as when woman regrets after she fucked like whore: should claim be disallowed - because it is too easy to abuse?
Do we allow tindr / grindr people to lie about age? dick size? income? origins? HIV status?
I don't know. I pose questions.
But gender isn't sex - gender is how you feel & present, while sex is your chromosomes & how you cum.
To lie about your basic sex, does feel worse than lie about your age.
As healthy Gay dude, I never want to date anyone without at least 1 testicle, at least 1 Y choromosome, & prostate & dick both work. Sorry - it's true tho.
I can totally see, if healthy Straight dude feels same way about genuine tits, XX, & ovary / no dick or testicles.