Posts made by atlwrthit

I was late before I stopped denying I was attracted to mean.  I used a phone line (pre internet) at 19 and worked weeks tyring to pick out the perfect guy.  IT was so bad, he was ten years older then he said, smelled of old musk and all we did was oral and it was awful.  When I went all the way, I did not want to make the same mistake.  I had been dating my first real boyfriend for a month, he had gotten a deal on a really nice room and I had told him I would never bottom.  It was so romantic, I gave it up (hurt like a bitch) and even though he was certifiably crazy…I never once regretted it.

There are some guides out there, and on this site.  The best thing to do though is to be honest that t you want to be taught and find a guy who is willing to be patient and honest.  What makes you think you need help to begin with?

Hey all,

Been trying to do some research and was wondering if there are any reccomendations for sex toys.  It is kind of hard to research.  I am lookin pretty much now at Aneros and Fort Troff for prostate stimulation.  There are tons of models, etc. I have used a prostate stimulator (small non electric) butt plugs and small dildos with some success, but this is the first time looking to spend some money for a good one.  Any advice, or great experiences would be appreciated.

I think it is a good question, and not really an easy answer.  Yes, I agree with being cautious about being superficiality, , but there is also something said for honesty.  Years ago, early on in a conversation, a guy I was talking to made it clear that he only like 8+ which I am not.  It saved me a ton of time, because I am not 8+ and no need to judge him, at least he knew that was what mattered other than pretending to be something he is not.  It is kind of like would you want someone who hated giving head to "pretend" to like oral and then be dissatisfied later?

I think what you are describing is a yellow flag, not a red flag.  If you have the equipment he is looking for…then keep chatting.  Ask some other questions and see if he is really just a superficial prick, or just has a fascination with large dicks (which would not be unique to him).

Generally speaking, I think tgons of porn guys are hot, but recently I have fallen in love with Alex Mercum…just everything about him.  Definitely one of my all time favs.

I would suggest other apps as well.  You mention you can be a power bottom, and then show the best ass picture with a great bubble butt.  I am not even a top and it makes me want to fuck that.  Try making some first moves and find an app that works better for you.

I think you have heard a resounding cry that there are tons of guys that would think this is a turnon or don't care. I want to caution, that some do care..just like some care about height, weight, race, etc.  I think it is important you are honest about it and upfront about it.  I agree with so many of the posters that sex is really not dependent on size.  I have had some great sex with guys all over the spectrum and been pleasured by many different sizes, HOWEVER, I tended to have more hot sessions with average or slightly average guys.  In fact of my all ten top tops, I would say 8 were 6inches or below.

Final caution.  I use to obsess about my average size cock.  It drove people away, not my size, my obsession with it.  If they say they are okay with it, take them at face value.  I remember one FWB I had who was a good 8" and a total slut and loved to flip flop.  He got a bf for a few months, and we he came back on the market..he came right to my dick to get fucked.  He said he loved the size and he could not get enough of it.  I don't know why always helped my confidence that this total slut with choice of dicks came running to mine.

It is weird.. I use to obsessed that my dick was not big enough.  The truth is to some guys, it is a big deal.  I am not super small just average, and I had guys definitely indicate they were not interested.  There were a large number more guys I turned off who did not care but hated me obsessing it.  Ironically as a mostly bottom; I always preferred for the most part average.

Hey all,

If you could suggest one piece of cardo equipment for in home use what would it be?  I lost about 60lbs using the treadmill, but those are loud and so heavy and big.  With the kids right now, getting to the gym is a chore and my weight is creeping right back up.  I have a room I could put it in, and watch TV etc at the same time.  I was thinking like a step climber?  Any experiences?

The cost varies widely, but it is definitely more expensive than you think, unless you adopt after foster care.  That the foster care mostly pays for, but it depends on your state and you could have to have several experiences where you get attached and they find other family.

The costs run anywhere between 15k and 80k (or more in weird cases) with the average I think around 20-30; but there is a tax advantage to it and you in essence get about 13k back as long as you pay taxes (you use to get it back no matter what).  There are some amazing agencies etc that work with the gays

I think if you were not feeling it, you were not feeling.  I hated my first oral experience.  I had in my mind what I wanted it to be.  I used a phone line (Internet hook ups not that sophisticated at that point) and rushed to a guy I had talked to.  After getting there he had lied about his age looks, everything.  He was not awful, but I knew I was not into it and I did not at all enjoy it.

It will never be "perfect" but if it does not get you horny…why even try it?

I had organized a group thing in a motel, about 4 guys had shown up, not my type but they were having fun.  Then thiese two friends came in all my type had just come in and started making a direct bee line for me.  I can still see the hot body in a black tank top as he grabbed my head and started kissing me and feeling me up.

Then suddenly from one of the participants already there where heard some noises.  One of the guys was having an epileptic seizure.  We got him stable and called 911 and I told everyone else it was okay to leave.  When perimedics came, they kept asking me questions and I did not even know the guys name.  They took him to hospital and I had no way to follow up except via email which he checked a week later and he did not ever remember coming to the motel.

Going super old school here with Paul Morgan.  Not the best picture attached.  He just seemed to love sex and was an equally insatiable top and bottom.  He could fuck for hours and bottomed for Jeff Stryker.  He did bi and I think possibly straight, always rock hard and he came like a geyser.  He was hot and made sex look fun.

I have had several HIV+ friends really struggle with this.  The majority of them just place it on their profiles now and immediately mention it. They struggle because it is really not anyone's business until things get to a certain point, but they said they often got hurt otherwise.  You cannot really "force" someone to be okay with it if they are not.  In fact, one friend I have dumps them quick if they say they are okay but then make comments and questions that they may not be.  It hurts to be rejected later so they just say it upfront.  I do not think this is a right answer, but they feel more "protected."

I think the bottle type was what I use to call the steeple dick?  IT has a huge base and came to a point.  I hated that kind of dick.

I thought I was the only one who liked that.  It is my favpart..but I understand 90% or more use viagara