My partner used to be married when we started dating. We were looking for sex at 1st but we clicked and after sometime we became exclusive. For a player like him, he became very jealous when we started developing stronger feelings for each other which was very hot.. hahahaha. Definitely, makes you feel special, nonetheless he is an amazing guy. It helps that he wasn't getting along with her. It was quite awkward the 1st time I set on the table with him, his back-then-wife and the kids. I felt some kind of guilt, since she seems nice, but at the same time I felt that she had her chance with him for few years, and it's my turn to have him from now on. They had their divorce a year and half ago. Unfortunately, that meant that he has to return back to his country and start over a better finical life. I barely graduated when that happened so both of us couldn't help it but we promised that we will be always together. And here, until no we are still maintaining our relationship with texts, emails and calls.
As I told him, "divorce paper is just a piece of paper, you were already divorced quite sometime ago". I feel also me and him are already a married couple without the papers.