Posts made by alex0976

Just need some practices and then your problem will be solved. I remember some experts recommend using butt plugs (there are a series of butt plugs used for medical purpose).

Agree with you a lot. Have to say it is hard to find high quality gay porns in recent days. Nowadays, most scenes just begin with fucking without any passions. Actors just like fucking machine. Hope there will be a change in some day. I have to say some soft core scenes from the gay-movie are better than the hard core ones from gay porn videos.

Maybe I will try. If he is attractive and there is chemistry between us, I think I donnt mind whether he is FTM or not.

YES!!!

YES!!! just relax and enjoy, you will find it easy to.

It seems you are insecure at this moment. Maybe you need to talk to him telling him what you think (maybe this is not a good idea, but in a relationship, both of you should open to each other so as to prevent something bad happening. ). As do not know what kind of your BF is, maybe the talk will be a disaster, maybe it will enhance the connection. Although a happy and amazing sex life can keep a relationship going well but it cannot make sure nothing bad happen.

Cheating is not good but sometimes it is a way to tell you that your partner may need or want something that he cannot get from you. Sometimes, in a relationship, cheating just like a mirror to show you what your partner are or what you need to do in order to be better. If my BF cheat on me, I will forgive him once as it is hard to prevent such a bad thing happening especially for our people (plz do not judge me, but it is true that we gay people are easier to lose in the sex attraction). The only thing I want to do is to let him know I forgive him and will do my best to care our relationship. But I have to say, sometimes, it works, sometimes not. It depends on the people we are dating.

The only advice for you is that you need to figure out why you have such a feeling or what make you suspect your BF. BTW, living together may not be an excuse for the action of cheating. Sometimes, living together will accelerate the end of a relationship. Living together means all your life secrets may be exposed to each other. For people who need own space, it is not a good idea. Many people get separated after living together.

BTW, you both met in a sex date, whether it means your BF want an open relationship or just want to have one although you said he acted as a saint for you.

Love is a mystery. We cannot make sure when it will disappear especially in a relationship. If you treasure this relationship, just make sure both of you can be honest to each other. If there is always something hidden, the relationship will not be healthy and it may be end with a disaster.

Best wishes to you

It is Okay but recommend to use other words to express you are attracted to white people. Although it is your right to choose what you like sometimes, we have to consider the situation.

"Without" is great but have to make sure the safety. Just mentioned STD and STI can be infected even you use Prep. Just make sure the one you want to do bareback is totally trusted. Do not recommend unsafe sex.

If you want to try some toys, Fleshjack is recommended (a brand for GAY of Fleshjack). The experience is so great. At present, many models are added to the collection, just have fun ;D

It seems that maybe he is not a sex addict but just like the way he lives right now. If he is a sex addict, maybe hook up apps will not be enough for him as it always take times to find a certain target. At present, lots of people get used to the hookup apps and cannot control themselves, maybe your BF is one of them.

You may be sad about this relationship as how he acts. If you want to have a relationship that can turn you on and let you feel happy and comfortable, maybe you should reconsider this kind of open relationship.

Open relationship allows to have own sex life but still focus on the connection between two lovers. No evidences shows open relationship is harmful but only show it is not suitable for everyone. If you do want to continue this relationship, you have to talke with your BF if the talking can be helpful. If he just continue what he wants to do but ignores you as always, maybe this unhealthy open relationship should be called off and you need to move on to another one. Just remember, a great relationship will make you happy and comfortable and an terrible one will ruin your life and take disaster to you.

Me too. I have to say many straight porn stars have amazing body and cock, so attractive

Just relax and try it slowly. I think you two can talk about it and try the process step by step. Do not urge to do anal sex. It will hurt you physically and mentally as you have never experience it. Maybe you can try use some toys to help you feel the penetrate such as Aneros Helix when you are alone. Step by step, using a dildo to replace with the Helix. Friendly reminding, doing douche is necessary. Many products can help you do douche. Douche will not hurt you. When you feel alright to have anal sex, I think you can tell your partner. Maybe you can try rimming at first and then let him help you relax your ass by licking or figuring. Most experienced tops will do these things. Just remember, relax and slow

Maybe you have to figure out by yourself. The fastest way is to go to a gay bar to see whether you are into man or just be attracted by the muscle as you said you can erect when see muscle women. If you do not want to take a risk, a Psychologist is recommended.

It seems that your armpit hairs will not be thicken after it is shaved. I have read some articles about this topic and the final result is that your armpit hairs will be the same as before. The feeling of it is because the new hair is bit harder than the old one at beginning.

According to some essays I read, bottom always well protects their hole by practicing before shooting. Besides, many people go to doctor to do surgery to recover the broken ones. It is said bottom needs more care than top.  If you focus on the word "tight", a book recommended to you called how to bottom like a porn star in which there are some realities telling you that your hole will not be loose even you have been penetrated for many times.

Maybe it is time to talk about this issue with him now. Marriage needs to be taken care carefully. Any cracks may let the marriage wreck. If you two still deeply love each other, I think all things can be worked out. Sometimes, a good and effective talk can let both of you know each other more and love each other more!!!

In my opinion, it is up to how your partner understand the porn industry. For most people, porn industry has crossed lines of their limitation. Doing softcore may be OK for people but hardcore NOT. If you really want to do it, you should talk with your partner to know how he/she feels. Some people thinks working in porn industry is just a normal job and can separate it from real life, but someone will fall into it and cannot pull himself/herself from the work. I just want to say if you really cherish this relationship and hope it will last long, you should keep in mind that it is just a job and should not bother your real life even your partner agree on your decision.

Definitely yes!!!!　Always be turned on when see such a scene.

Andrew Christian, AUSSIEBUM, CK, TEAMM8, Ruskin, Gregg Homme and Boss are the ones I like

black, white , pink, green, yellow, purple are the ones I like most