i'm not having sex if either of us is sick. aside from the health issues, there's just nothing sexy about being sick.

Definitely worth it.

good for him

I didnt know this was a thing. Yeah i think its just guys being goofy and showing off. You can find anything on the internert if you look for it.

realationships are all different. what works for one may be a death knell for another. as long as everyone is treated with respect and feelings don't get hurt, then hey, if you can make it work good for you.

I think though, it is unrealistic to expect everyone in a poly relationship to be "equal". Humans are built that way. You can't love two (or more) people in the exact same way because people are different and have different personalities and interests and character quirks.

I think the key is communication and respect. as long as everyone is open and honest and resentments don't fester (I know, easier said than done sometimes) then make it work if you can.

depends. we all age. if i'm 90 and he's 95 that's not too old.

if i'm 30 and he's 95 that's a bit different, I think.

but hey, as long as everything works and you find the dude attractive then age doesn't really matter

I was in my early 20s, and he was 45/50

didn't really ask his age but he was married with kids just a little younger than I was

I don't know. I always felt it was important to keep my insides, you know, inside of me.

Columbus

I think the main difference is that in straight porn the women do seem to be treated as objects and not necessarily as people (there are of course, always exceptions).

Whereas in gay porn the guys actually seem to be willing participants who enjoys what goes on.

As far as is one more "slutty/kinky" than the other, well, it depends. There's a wide range of variety from vanilla stuff to the most extreme stuff and everything in between. it just depends on what you're watching.