First time bottoming
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As the title suggests, I have never bottomed before. Please pardon my ignorance..
The dilemma is that, I am rather tight but my partner is quite thick. Does anyone have any tips to make it hurt less or even how to get him in, in the first place? I have read about practicing with dildos. I haven't got access to dildos so I am now "practicing" with a hairbrush handle wrapped in cling film. Initially, even a finger up would be very uncomfortable but I think I am getting used to the feeling of something up there. Do I need to merely insert something up there and get used to that feeling or do I also need to simulate intercourse? Prior to entry, how do I make my rectum relax?
Does the feeling like you constantly need to poop disappear after a couple times of anal and if not, how do I make sure I don't poop during intercourse? I also read about using the toilet before and cleaning thoroughly.
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Start training with fingers!
I really recommend reading "How To Bottom Like A Porn Star".
https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=cf21bd51fc8cd3d964a7108cb70e1203eaeed26d66a2726d
It's really helpful and will most likely change your whole approach to bottoming (which will be a good thing). -
Lots of lube, tongue, and patience. Maybe a dildo might help too. And it's going to hurt at first, there is no way to avoid that.
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I was very nervous the first time, too. I thought it was going to hurt as hell, but as suggested I used a lot of lube and even a dildo a bit before… and it wasn't so bad. It hurt, yes, but after a while, the pleasure was higher than the pain.
Just relax and enjoy
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slow and steady wins the race.
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You should learn douching first. this might help you to be used in the feeling of pooping.
i suggest that you should practice with your partner's dick instead of dildo/hair brush handle.
while you try to put in the dick, masterbate your own dick. this will help you relax your anus. -
slow and steady wins the race.
Hopefully this will be how it plays out for you. The longer the session goes, the more you get into it and the pain fades away. Also try to be more "in the mood" because unlike some porn vids, your dick may end up flaccid while you are being fucked.
My anonymous hookups weren't exactly out of passion, and the guys would have cum already before my pain faded away, so hopefully yours turns out great. Good luck!
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i took forever to bottom, was a total top
but was fucking with a dude and wanted to try, first time is always a bit weird, but work your fingers, get to know your anus, lots of lube.And see what position works best, for me is always better to start on top riding, after the hole is relaxed and the cock is bouncing i can do it in any position.
and its the best orgasm ever
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Start training with fingers!
I really recommend reading "How To Bottom Like A Porn Star".
https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=cf21bd51fc8cd3d964a7108cb70e1203eaeed26d66a2726d
It's really helpful and will most likely change your whole approach to bottoming (which will be a good thing).do you have another link/what was in that link? It’s unfortunately dead
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In addition to what everyone else has said i will also add that it isn't all just down to you, your partner also has to accept that this is new to you and his role isn't to just fuck you and cum. His main job is to give you pleasure, because the more you get the more you will give back. Bad tops just grind away, good tops send bottoms to planet 9 and back before they themselves cum. :police:
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if you really like your partner you would eventually find pleasure in pain. could be painful at first. just use more lube.
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I think if you can get to an adult store, there is a brand named "Colt" in a red and black box. They sell a buttplug anal training kit. it has 3 butt plugs in the kit. One is a small (4" thin diameter), the second is medium (6" larger diameter), and the third is large (7.5" side diameter). You can practice with those and start with any size you feel comfortable with. When you get one all the way. Try walking around the house normally with it in. Usually it'll slip back out on it's own once your hole relaxes it's grip.
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I was very nervous the first time, too. I thought it was going to hurt as hell, but as suggested I used a lot of lube and even a dildo a bit before… and it wasn't so bad. It hurt, yes, but after a while, the pleasure was higher than the pain.
Just relax and enjoy
Relax in every case!
;D
