Would You Be Straight if You Had The Choice?
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Nope. I'm very happy being gay
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Yes, atm I would
Babysat my nephew a few times recently and he's so adorable and he seems to like me. Makes me want to be a dad.
But I am a scientifically minded person, I got nothing against adoption and it's something if I settled down I would not pass up with my husband but it's not the same
I struggle knowing the purpose of life and understanding it fully, procreation, my own family, it's important to me that one of my children are physically and biologically mine, so I have a family to leave behind.
We all die and are eventually forgotten, but for me to just end and leave nothing to prosper.. It does mess with my head more than I've cared to admit, the struggle of being gay whilst agreeing with being here to be a dad to my own child is the reason I should be here.
Not being able to have that for obvious reasons is upsetting, Holding my nephews and niece makes me want my own
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@ashjames07 said in Would You Be Straight if You Had The Choice?:
Yes, atm I would
Babysat my nephew a few times recently and he's so adorable and he seems to like me. Makes me want to be a dad.
But I am a scientifically minded person, I got nothing against adoption and it's something if I settled down I would not pass up with my husband but it's not the same
I struggle knowing the purpose of life and understanding it fully, procreation, my own family, it's important to me that one of my children are physically and biologically mine, so I have a family to leave behind.
We all die and are eventually forgotten, but for me to just end and leave nothing to prosper.. It does mess with my head more than I've cared to admit, the struggle of being gay whilst agreeing with being here to be a dad to my own child is the reason I should be here.
Not being able to have that for obvious reasons is upsetting, Holding my nephews and niece makes me want my own
If I had the choice, I'd have been born a white male of Royal lineage from a rich and peaceful country - but NOT too close "in line to the throne" as to be a public spectacle everywhere I went.
Since I'm wishing, I'd also like a 10" penis, blue eyes, flawless skin, perfectly flowing (not thinning) blonde hair, and a personality that made me the envy of all the free world.
The point? Being gay is how I was born... I was born with a lot of good (great!) things (not least of which is being born in the USA), and some less than great... but they are what they are, and I don't generally fantasize about how things would be different "if"... but when I do, I go all out! LOL
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hell not! It must be so boring!
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I wouldn't change my sexuality, I happen to believe we chose our sexuality before we are conceived. I see it as a wonderful opportunity to spend more time spiritually parenting yourself, healing your soul without the social constraints that being straight offers. Don't get me wrong being straight, doing the parenting thing, and experiencing a relationship with the opposite sex, offers wonderful experiences that also heal the soul. There are a lot of pluses to being gay, being attracted to the same sex, you are better able to read and understand the same sex's emotions, thoughts, actions etc. You are more freer to go against the social norms and constraints that are expected off straight people. Being gay also affords you the opportunity to explore masculine and feminine energy internally.
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@spam17 said in Would You Be Straight if You Had The Choice?:
**Would You Be Straight if You Had The Choice?
Have you ever thought about that?
**If I had a choice, I would prefer to be straight. Life as a gay man is hard, especially I'm in the closet.
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not at all! cock is all the matters xP
