Is it so weird that I don't want to send naked pics?
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So… Most people I chat on apps get annoyed because I don't send naked pics. Seriously? What do you think about sending naked pics to every guy out there??
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no
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Definitely not to every.
If I get a naked pic in he first message I'm like "ugh. no. *blocks".
But maybe because guys are just not attractive
One time I got a naked pic from a big muscled hairy guy and it was goooorgeous.
For me you're not the weird one - the others are. I send some nudes yep, but it was after a lot of talk or just when I really did find the other person attractive and it was mutual and I was really horny then we just traded pics but mostly yeah after really getting to know each other.
Right now I didn't send any nude in few months or more, and I'm being single. -
No you are not, and you are certainly not obliged to. Whenever people talk about naked pics I always say feel free to send but I don't have any to exchange LOL
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yeah well you need to also know what you want and understand where you are. Like grindr that's for quick sex. So people will of course ask to see what they are bargaining for . Quite normal. You might not like it okay, but then use some apps designed for relationship not sex.
I personally block any sissy that wants "to have a drink"/talk" when I clearly state on my profile I'm here for sex. -
And what are those apps for relationships? Because I don't see any on my phone except tinder which really makes me swipe almost every person left.
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Just because you think that every guys does it and you don't doesn't make you weird, it makes you , you.
Do what you want and how you want, you'll find someone who's like you, in time.
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I tend to like to have a convo first, and if it leads to that, hey. I'm not complaining. :cheesy2:
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So… Most people I chat on apps get annoyed because I don't send naked pics. Seriously? What do you think about sending naked pics to every guy out there??
No, it isn't, and you should never feel pressured to send nude pics. Remember that there's always the chance that the other person could be a total moron when it comes to securing their phone. I'm talking about 1234 as their PIN and leaving their phone out in the open, unlocked. Never doubt the stupidity of people out there. That's why I don't send nudes. I can be as secure as possible with them on my phone, but would the other person? Even if you're not including your face, if you're sending it in an app that includes your name and photo, well…
So if you're sending nudes out there, remember that they're only as secure as your weakest link. I've seen a couple of people I know have their nudes posted on Tumblr and treated as if it's some kind of game or portfolio by the ones posting it. Don't send your nudes to people you don't know or people who might pass them onto someone else. Call me paranoid, but once it's out there you can never know what's going to happen to it and any vaguely intelligent guy will understand that.
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intelligent guy will understand that
yeah still you forget that many people dont give a BEEP about having picture of their naked body out there for anyone to see on the contrary hence securing a picture of some random torso or dick that no one cares about related to some username.. if you are brad pitt maybe..otherwise ;D
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yeah well you need to also know what you want and understand where you are. Like grindr that's for quick sex.
Sure I get that. I'm out for sex sometimes myself. So, those times I find myself exchanging a couple pics, both parties get the idea of how each other looks and when they feel they're down for something, the naked pics start, even though I've said I don't have any… so then they get annoyed because, in fact, i don't have any.
I mean, if you like how the other guy looks in general, probably you've seen at least a full body pic... so... I just don't get why it's soooo important to see some random dick or butt if it's so much better to see it live. You know what I mean?? If you've exchanged several pics, that chances of being disappointed are small.Call me paranoid, but once it's out there you can never know what's going to happen to it and any vaguely intelligent guy will understand that.
And yeah… I'm a bit paranaido about it too. Just yesterday I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he ended up working at the same faculty I do and I had no idea till he said so. So... imagine i had sent him naked pics... I definitely wouldn't have liked those being shared at the place I work at.
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No you are not, and nobody are certainly obliged to. I think that when the people ask about naked pics, as reply receive or send fake photos
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Of course NOT. It's your rights and freedom to keep things private.
Just because someone else do it, doesn't mean you're bound to do the same, right? Every people is unique.
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I've never sent naked pics of myself to someone I didn't know or that I didn't have a relationship with. In fact when guys send me nudes right off the bat I actually get really annoyed and turned-off.
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If I am just casually chatting with a guy I don't see we I should suddenly send him nudes of me. If I am looking to hook up with somebody I don't mind. If everything goes according to plan I am going to see him naked and he me eventually. Besides that I just hate people who go around dating platforms asking for pictures just to get a quick wank. There are plenty of sites for that, enjoy!
