yeah well you need to also know what you want and understand where you are. Like grindr that's for quick sex.
Sure I get that. I'm out for sex sometimes myself. So, those times I find myself exchanging a couple pics, both parties get the idea of how each other looks and when they feel they're down for something, the naked pics start, even though I've said I don't have any… so then they get annoyed because, in fact, i don't have any.
I mean, if you like how the other guy looks in general, probably you've seen at least a full body pic... so... I just don't get why it's soooo important to see some random dick or butt if it's so much better to see it live. You know what I mean?? If you've exchanged several pics, that chances of being disappointed are small.
Call me paranoid, but once it's out there you can never know what's going to happen to it and any vaguely intelligent guy will understand that.
And yeah… I'm a bit paranaido about it too. Just yesterday I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he ended up working at the same faculty I do and I had no idea till he said so. So... imagine i had sent him naked pics... I definitely wouldn't have liked those being shared at the place I work at.