What are my chances of being killed/abducted?
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So I think I finally met some guy although it was online (I'm lonely af), he talks so confident while being horny and sending me some pictures through the phone.
and I've got my doubts I mean, he doesn't look dangerous at all and seems like a nice guy but y'know, we live in a world where anyone could fuk you up and I just want a nice guy to literally FUK.
but I'm a weird piece of sh*t so it's really hard to find someone to be with for some time.
so my question is, how do I know if he is something or someone that isn't secure.
I guess I really can't, maybe he knows how to lie properly. Or maybe he's just a normal guy who wants to fuk with no any other compromise and full discretion.btw sorry if this isn't the correct section, there are many in this forum I just didn't think enough to decide.
this is how his butt kinda looks like:
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Slightly impossible to know how someone will be before you meet them, but as a precaution probably should always leave a not at home about where you'll be if you're going somewhere.
I've done hookups a few times, and I noticed it was usually the people that didn't do tons of typos and actually were willing to engage in conversation that were the most 'normal' people. A couple that were just seemingly illiterate gave off creep vibes as soon as I went inside their places that had me very quickly leaving (I still remember that stunned look on this one guy's face as I went "yeah I gotta go").
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In the past I was scared about this kind of things, people sometimes lie. Well, I can confirm now, they always lie in some manner .
I joked with the other guy, in chat or sometimes in real life , with me , introducing myself as a psycho-killer , a psychopath…
If his reaction is something like gulps! or he close the chat, or remain in silence, is a good sign of being normal.
If he laughs, it's a sign of good sense of humour , or you've put your finger on, and he's a real psycho...anyway, he doesn't dare to kill you, beacuse he doesn't know for sure if you are lying or not.No, I'm not joking or lying, I did this a few times. Think about it. You're also stranger for the others.
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He does seem to joke a lot and looks kinda friendly so I think I'm gonna meet him but I will prefer to do it in a public place first.
And if everything goes well I'll let you guys know later ^-^ -
I don't really have anything of value to add. I'm just curious how the meetup went; and how, specifically are you weird? nosy
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Nothing happened in the end man.
We traded some pictures of ourselves and he told me not to message him unless he does it first because I think he has some girlfriend or something like that.
So he never texted me back again although he might do it someday but I just don't care about it anymore.
He also told me that he has some fetish about guys wearing girl's clothes and acting very feminine and submissive as possible but I ain't into that kind of stuff so I remember telling him that there wouldn't be no way that I would do that (I'm actually trying to be an otter lol), so yeah.
He probably found some twink or trap that would do the job for him as he wants without his girlfriend finding out.
Oh and I was just saying that I'm weird because I find myself very different from other people, it's like when I go outside I just don't get easily amused, I'm also very quiet and I feel like it's really difficult to find someone special in the town where I live. I just find myself like a lonely guy who no one would understand.
Not that big of a deal though, I think I might save my virgin ass for someone who actually deserves it someday, you know, someone special, so it's ok.
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I'd say meet in a public place to suss out the guy first before you do anything further
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Doesn't Argentina have gay marriage? I think you should probably not worry so much. Find a guy who isn't ultra-hyper-omega-closeted and just go get laid mang. Of course, you should always practice safe sex as well, especially with hook-ups. But sex isn't something you should stress over.
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That's what I always did too. Meet at the public place. You will know. I you joke a lot if you feel secure and comfortable, then you're good. Of course he can pretend but mostly if the guy is weird you will feel it right away. It helps when you hang out with people and meet lots of them. Be an outgoing guy. Then you'll have a better perception.
If the date is going good then you can take it somewhere more private like a walk in the park or something. I got too hasty once cause I saw the guy for the first time but we spoke for 5 months I think but it was like 2 messages a week lol. We had a laugh, we were getting along so I invited him too my house. Well I wasn't alone so that's a good thing too. If you have any roommates you don't have to worry about anything. I for example got my mom. That's funny. But we were in my room and only talked. We started kissing so I asked him to stay overnight. He did. Mom knew that there was someone (although she knew only the part that we were learning for an exam…uh.. we weren't
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Doesn't Argentina have gay marriage? I think you should probably not worry so much. Find a guy who isn't ultra-hyper-omega-closeted and just go get laid mang. Of course, you should always practice safe sex as well, especially with hook-ups. But sex isn't something you should stress over.
I know it might sound kinda weird but I live in a small city, where my taste in men is quite hard to satisfy.
The men I find very attractive are straight and the gay ones I meet are all twinks / dark skinned / not attractive in my eyes.
I'm just saying that they're not in my "to do" list, lol.
If I lived in a big place like "Buenos Aires", well, there might be more chances to get laid for me I guess. I'm just too picky, but it's just my taste you know.Coming back to the main subject of this post. I've been talking with the guy I mentioned before when I started this post.
For what I understand, he's a very busy guy. Working almost 24/7 and he's got a girlfriend, so I can't text him first.
He told me that he haven't met another guy, he only texts me when he can and always sends me pictures of his cute butt.
Last night he asked me to come to his place but it was midnight and it's risky to go outside when it's very late so I obviously refused.
I would keep asking him to meet him in a public place when it's not too late.I still don't know if anything is going to happen between us someday. I really don't care if he has a girlfriend as long as she doesn't find out and I get fucking laid.
So that's it guys, for now I think.
