about a month.
it was because of some depression shit.

Hey guys, I'm back.

I'm reviving this thread just to update my status about the subject.

So, I don't know if some of you guys are still around this page, and if anyone is interested in knowing how I solved my problem you can continue reading. But I just want to say that I did it! I was finally able to maintain an erection for at least like half an hour.

So how did it work?
I had this huge doubt about myself: "what if I wasn't working properly because I was never able to get a chance with some guy that I'd find truly hot?"
So I had this chance with this guy that was actually my type (hairy chest, ass and nice face)
When we met up we talked a lot, just to know each other and see if we could go any further.
And it all went pretty good so I stayed at his place all night.

We didn't fuck because he said wasn't ready for that though.
But that night, for the first time I felt like I was secure, I felt safe, I felt wanted, and he was hot, so when I was with him that night, everytime we would kiss and touch, I would get so hard, and I would love every moment of it; it was probably the best night I had in a long time.
And let's be honest. Who doesn't like to feel loved and wanted?
That night I felt like that, I felt like I could rest with him, like he would take care of me :hug2:, like everything was going to be just fine.
I know that I might sound a little corny, but I don't feel like I'll ever going to be like those guys who can get hard with any stranger that they find (I actually envy those who can).
So yeah, we just met that one time, and I won't ever see him again (that's another story).
But tbh, I feel very happy to know that at least now I can have a long erection if I'm with someone that I find very attractive, and that in the end it was all in my mind.

Sometimes some of us just can't randomly hook up with someone and go straight to action, I really wish I was able to do that, but I don't think I can, I feel like I'm full of emotions, and I never saw that part of me before.

Anyways that's it, I would like to thank you again for the comments and advices, it was very kind of you to share your knowledge and experience.

If you have more to share you still can.

Greetings.

So the first one that came to my mind was Lafayette from True Blood.
I don't find him attractive or anything, but damn, he's one hell of a character any person would instantly love.

@aadam101:

Does your username have anything to do with your erection problems?

@QCDelights:

Not that I'm judging you Mr. Coke000 but have you considered canning the coke that shit can mess up a hell of a lot including an erection. Short of that I can suggest looking on youtube for a mantra to heal what ails you, thoses Hindus have a mantra for everything

I never tried coke, I just like coca cola, lol.

Thank you all for the replies, it does help me thinking that I'm not the only one in here with this problem.

I realized that this thing of me is probably not gonna go away, because I myself, find like a very quiet person, still a good and comprehensive one, but I just don't feel like I can make anyone feel completely satisfied if I don't feel completely sure about how I feel for them.

He is great, but only 20 years old, so it's not like he gets serious about some stuff.
I'm not saying that our relationship should go any further, we are just friends with benefits, so if he wants, he can go and fuck any other person he wants, which he did.
But what I found about myself, is that I won't really be able to get it hard all the time if I'm not with someone I find really hot, or that not is my type.

Just like two weeks ago or so, I used Grindr to have some moment with someone else, to see if my problem would still be there with other person.
I found a daddy (always wanted to do it with someone between 30-40 years old), and he was very good in bed, but I didn't know he was completely shaven, I really liked his bearded face though, but not his body, so the entire time I had my dick completely soft and felt very embarrased about it.
We only found ourselves to have sex, and not even know our names, so he won't see me again, well, at least I completed one of my little fantasies lol.

It's a little sad tbh. How can people just get to know some stranger and have sex without any problem, being able to focus so well, having a full time erection, like, all the time.

When I'm with my fuckbuddy, he can cum like 3 times and still wanting to keep fucking. I sometimes can bearly reach it to the first cum.

I'm sorry I had to write to much.

I never really had my chance to be with someone that is completely my type and that I could share my histories with them, to feel safe, and to even have something else than sex with them

Greetings.

Hi guys.

So I got myself a fuckbuddy.
He's very gentle and funny, and we both enjoy many things in common so we get along pretty well.
But that's not the main subject.

The thing is, when we decide to have some moment between us, he sometimes wants me to fuck him, and that's great. But somehow, I just can't get a boner.
And he's not ugly or anything, he's got a great butt, I love playing with it, but it's like I, somehow, feel insecure or something.

At first when we start kissing and touching, I do get very hard, but as time goes by, it gets soft again.
And I don't know if I get distracted or something.

It really bothers me because I want to please him,
But if I can't keep my dick hard for long time, then that means that I probably just don't work for having sex.
I don't want to take any pill.
Maybe it's because I don't have much experience.
But he does make me horny and he's really good to me, so he deserves more from me when we have sex.

I don't know if any of you ever had a problem like this, but I hope I can get it right somehow.

I'm 22 btw.

Greetings.  ^-^

beautiful ass cheeks.

i'm not that cute but well.

6/10

I would still bang you though.

I usually listen to subgenres.

Pop Rock, Pop Punk, Alt. Rock.
Also, Pop, Electronica, Dance, etc.
And for heavy, Post-Hardcore, Nu Metal, Metalcore and Deathcore.