When did you lose your virginity?
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I was 25.5 years old. Lost it to a guy. Happened on July 4th. Not a good first time.
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21 to my first bf
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18 to a girl...fucked pussy on an off for a few years until one time, at 21, I was "doing the deed" but couldn't get off without thinking about these two really hot guys who lived next door. That was the last time I had sex with a woman.
24 to a guy...had some acculturated homophobia to get over, and was later worried that I had "lost time" by not starting earlier. I think I've made up for it since then.
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14 to a school mate
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18 with a girl for full on sex, 24 with a guy. Late bloomer??
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I was 21. It was a grindr hookup. No regrets - well, one regret, the guy went on to become my boyfriend for a short while and he became pretty abusive, so it would've been nice to not have met him. But the sex was as good as I could expect for a first time and I don't feel bad about that part - just all the nonsense that came after...
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@eobox91103 What's your body count then, if you've made up for it?
Personally I feel like mine is kind of low, I'm 28 and my body count is about 50...but almost all of that sex was compressed into a year. Can't wait to get back to that lifestyle... -
@valldelxeno said in When did you lose your virginity?:
@eobox91103 What's your body count then, if you've made up for it?
Personally I feel like mine is kind of low, I'm 28 and my body count is about 50...but almost all of that sex was compressed into a year. Can't wait to get back to that lifestyle...When I was 28, my count was less than ten...due to both a late start and needing to study 26 hours/day in graduate school. When I hit 30 I thought I was "over the hill," but it was quite the opposite: I had more time for the gym, as well as my own place for "entertaining." I probably went ten years with one encounter per week. Do the math on that, and it's in the middle three digits.
I'm neither proud nor ashamed of that--it's just something that happened. I had a "visiting associate" post in a city with a very gay neighbourhood, and it wasn't unusual to bring a guy home that I met at the gym so we could finish what we started in the showers.
I can understand a feeling that one might have "lost time by coming out late," as I very much felt that way myself. (I do some volunteer work with a youth organisation, and there are kids coming out at 14--or earlier--these days.) But everyone is on their own timetable, and at the risk of sounding like a trite greeting card, everyone's schedule is exactly right for them. The current pandemic has put a damper on things, but I prefer to be cautious. I'm skeptical if some guy says that his dick is long enough that we could fuck even while distanced by two meters.
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I didn't
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@eobox91103 said in When did you lose your virginity?:
When I hit 30 I thought I was "over the hill," but it was quite the opposite
Not to mention, men age like wine. It seems like most guys, at least where I live, are like me and prefer guys aged 35-50, so I'm sure that if you live somewhere with a lot of gay guys it's easier to get laid at that age
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So I entered puberty at age 9 (very early) - I can document this because they took class pictures throughout Elementary school... you know the ones: smaller kids sitting on the floor, legs criss-cross, a row of kids behind them on their knees, and another row in the back with the tallest kids standing... the teacher off to the side, and a little sign in front showing the teacher's name, the grade, and the school.
Well, in 3rd grade, my class pic looks like there are 2 teachers... except the tall one opposite the teacher was me - quickly approaching 6-feet-tall!
My 4th grade class picture was similar, but I've lost my 5th Grade class photo... But, I will say this: my 6th Grade English teacher told me she passed me because I was "too big" to hold back!
So there I was, 6-ft in the 3rd Grade, age 9 - and my neighbor was a family with a 12 y/o girl, a 13 y/o boy, and a 15 y/o girl.
I was walking home from school one day and happened across that 12/yo girl in a wooded area (it was a shortcut path all the kids from my neighborhood took)... anyway, she was curious, I was curious, so she showed me her 12 y/o growing tits and little patch of hair over her pussy, and I showed her the little patch of hair over my grown (maybe still growing - I don't really recall) dick. I got it hard for her and she was ecstatic. It didn't happen THAT DAY, but later we started fucking...
The following fall, she started Middle School (6th Grade) and started fucking "older" boys (no doubt, with bigger dicks - I may have had a "man's dick" at 9, but it was still - and remains to this day - a totally average-sized penis... nothing to write home about, LOL.
When I was 11, the brother and I were playing in my backyard pool... one thing led to another, and we sucked each other off... later that week, we fucked in his bedroom (on his waterbed!)
So: 9 with a girl, 11 with a boy.
I've had an "active" sex life ever since - with both men and women - but last had sex with a woman in 2011 (with my now ex-wife). I'm open to it again, but since I'm dating a man currently, I'm hoping it never goes there!
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I was 24 when I let mine go.
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I was 14; I lost my virginity to the 41yo redneck construction worker who lived down the street. We went out on his motorboat one afternoon, anchored somewhere secluded, and I spent six hours in the sun sucking his dick and letting him fuck me.
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15 with a guy and 19 with a girl. Have to say it was way more fun losing my virginity to a guy than a girl lol.
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19 with a woman and 3 years later with a man @22
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When I was 17 to someone I loved at the time.
No regrets
