I wonder if other gay people think like I do...
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I really resent being lumped in with other groups - such as TRANS
Gay - wonderful
Straight - hope you can provide for your offspring (you can't)
Lesbian - great, more guys for me to choose fromTrans - WTF? I don't want women intruding on me, nor do I have any urge to use the same restroom as a woman. I don't want to play on the women's baseball team or women's basketball team nor women's soccer team - nor do I see the logic of anybody ELSE doing this.
To put it succinctly, Gay, Bi, Straight... OK
Trans? NOT OK. Putting on women's panties, etc. for fun is one thing... BUT.. seriously defining oneself as a different gender is not OK.Rejecting reality is a mental illness.
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Jesus Christ!
How many times are you going to post about this crap. This is the third or fourth thread you've started to voice your resentment of being "lumped in" with trans people. Nobody is lumping you in with trans people. The trans people had a meeting and they don't want you. Get over your own bigotry and/or insecurities, live your own damn life and shut up about it because we don't care!!!
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I have no issue with the LGBTIs, but the rest drive me insane.
Normal trans people just want to get on with their lives.
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@raphjd said in I wonder if other gay people think like I do...:
Normal trans people just want to get on with their lives.
Apparently, lololulu19 doesn't.
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@lololulu19 said in I wonder if other gay people think like I do...:
I really resent being lumped in with other groups - such as TRANS
Gay - wonderful
Straight - hope you can provide for your offspring (you can't)
Lesbian - great, more guys for me to choose fromTrans - WTF? I don't want women intruding on me, nor do I have any urge to use the same restroom as a woman. I don't want to play on the women's baseball team or women's basketball team nor women's soccer team - nor do I see the logic of anybody ELSE doing this.
To put it succinctly, Gay, Bi, Straight... OK
Trans? NOT OK. Putting on women's panties, etc. for fun is one thing... BUT.. seriously defining oneself as a different gender is not OK.Rejecting reality is a mental illness.
You're clearly uncomfortable in your own skin. Your anger clearly indicates that.
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I don't quite understand trans myself. but that's okay, I don't have to. They deserve to choose their own life and have all the rights to do so.
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@cinemacapman said in I wonder if other gay people think like I do...:
Apparently, lololulu19 doesn't.
Obviously, because she's not getting on with her life.Nah... I think he just needs some Vagicil to get all that sand out of his vagina LOL
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If there is no TRANS category..
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Would straight man become a lesbian or
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Would gay man become straight
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@OKCancel Haha... Don't fret... There will always be a trans category.
I'm old enough to remember when the Trans category used to be called Shemale.
Ahhhhh.... Those were the days!
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@MrMazda That is kind of my point. Have a TRANS category. Always have a trans category.. but I don't like being lumped in with some group that I am not part of.
For instance, in the university I went to, there was a "Gay & Lesbian Coalition". That pissed me off. Why can't there be a separate Gay group and Lesbian group? I have virtually nothing in common with lesbians. If I want to join a club, I want it to be comprised of men who are interested in other men - not a fetish. I resent being lumped in with lesbians, diaper "babies", pedophiles, necrophiliacs, scat people, sado-masochists, people being hurt or humiliated, etc.
I suppose the real issue is I don't like being regarded as being a fetish - as if I am mentally ill or whatever. If anybody is mentally ill, it is straight people who produce children that they cannot raise themselves, can't support financially, can't provide a happy life or a future, and leave them to rot in an already overpopulated world that is on the brink of a nuclear war.
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@lololulu19 Wow dude.... Just WOW!.
I hope you live in a country that has universal healthcare, which includes mental health care. Clearly you have some issues to sort out and can be easily triggered. I suggest you consult the assistance of a qualified medical practitioner to help you sort some shit out.
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@MrMazda ...
I believe these should be applied on that type of behavior you responded ...
Such As :
depression
generalised anxiety
sexual problems
self-destructive behaviour
persistent psychological problems, disorders of identity
psychosomatic disorders
phobias
obsessive compulsive disorders.https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/conditionsandtreatments/psychoanalysis
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@MrMazda I'm going to take a moment to thank you and all the other people that give your time and energy to moderate these forums, and to apologise to you all for what I'm about to say as I suspect it's going to be worthy of a ban, but this has been a long time coming and I really do feel it needs to be said....
@lololulu19 You are a gay man, correct? I am also a gay man. Here's my opinion: I RESENT BEING LUMPED IN WITH YOU! The amount of utter bullshit you spout in these forums seeking attention is unbelievable. Let's just break down your last reply to this thread:
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How does having a trans category "lump you in" with anyone?
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You get pissed off over gays and lesbians standing together? Go and stand by yourself then! You do know what a coalition is, don't you? Why didn't you go and form your own group? Why didn't you go off and just be honest and say to everyone else "I'm going to gather people together to look after my interests and mine alone and fuck everyone else because as long as I'm ok that's all that matters!" Let's expand the boundaries a bit: Do you give 2 shits about gay people who are persecuted and even killed in other countries, or is that unimportant because YOU have little in common with them?
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"I resent being lumped in with lesbians, diaper "babies", pedophiles, necrophiliacs, scat people, sado-masochists, people being hurt or humiliated, etc" Who in the name of all holy fuck are you convinced is lumping you in with any of these? Granted, I'll give you the "humiliated" one because you publicly humiliate yourself with almost every delusional word you write here. Who are these people in your life that make you feel so uncomfortable, and why are they still in your life? Are you really so paranoid and scared? Even if it's not paranoia and random people are judging you that way, why don't you do something about it and go form a group to... Oh wait, we covered that already!
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"I suppose the real issue is I don't like being regarded as being a fetish - as if I am mentally ill or whatever." Again, by who? Do you even know what a fetish is? I mean, if somebody does get gratification from someone presenting as mentally ill then I'd say they're onto a winner with you. In all honestly though, how many people have made advances towards you and said anything along the lines of "You seem deranged and unstable. Fancy a shag?"
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"If anybody is mentally ill, it is straight people who produce children that they cannot raise themselves, can't support financially, can't provide a happy life or a future, and leave them to rot in an already overpopulated world that is on the brink of a nuclear war." I just...I... but... I genuinely can't work out where to even start with this bullshit. The very first thing that springs to mind I won't say because it dives in to political territory and I don't want to open up that can of worms and send this thread off onto a tangent.
I do my best to refrain from commenting on most of your posts because my first reaction is usually to be a snarky bastard and I don't want to look like I'm targeting you unfairly, but sometimes you come out with something that really deserves to be challenged. I really do think you're an attention-seeking troll when I read threads like this.
Most of the time when you do comment on other threads it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand. I remember one thread where someone was asking about a problem with their username, and you helpfully chimed in with a picture you claimed to have taken of Tom Cruise's condo building, harping on about a helipad on the roof. It feels like you've claimed to personally know more A-list celebrities than Jay Leno, and about as many top-ranked porn stars. Then there are all the posts where this happened or that happened. The first thing that comes into my head when I see them is "This one time, at Band Camp...." If your life is that interesting then why are you wasting it telling us all about it?
Most of the time when you bring up your eloquent "lumped in" feelings you'll create a new post and then just leave it hanging there like an eggy fart in a spacesuit, never returning to defend what you've said when everyone leaving comments disagrees. You just ignore it all, wait a few weeks and then create a new thread doing it all over again.
Then add in all the other recurring themes in your posts:
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This site should only have uploads that I personally like. I don't want straight, trans, bisexual or anything else to be available for anyone as it doesn't interest me.
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All men must undergo mandatory training on how to have anal sex and use anal sex toys
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To pay for college tuition men must either join the military or be forced into making gay porn for 4 years. (As I pointed out in another thread, this is specifically gay porn, regardless of orientation.)
There's more, but what's the point in mentioning it because you won't care. You're selfish, insular, lack empathy and appear to have no respect for anyone or anything that doesn't get you off.
You feel like you're being lumped in with other groups unfairly? The gays here aren't the ones doing it, so go forth into the streets and take your arguments to the people who apparently are. Just remember that while others might even fight the same fight, you'll be fighting on your own, because apparently most other people aren't worthy of being seen with you. Personally, if I'm excluded I'll wear it proudly as a badge of honour.
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@frostycab actually, I don't like being treated like garbage. I don't like being put in the same category as pedophiles or people who literally shit on each other. I don't like videos in which people are supposedly being tortured and even killed.
I do like looking at young men... I have mentioned that before. I like 21-28, and don't recall that anybody under the age of 16 appealed to me (I would point out that until a decade or two ago, the age of consent in Vatican City was TWELVE - if they lowered that to 9, that would cover the age that Moe was screwing the wife that was promised to him when she was 5.
I guess I am the weirdo.
I don't know any A-list celebrities nor top-ranked porn stars, but I have chatted with dozens of them.
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@lololulu19 said in I wonder if other gay people think like I do...:
@frostycab actually, I don't like being treated like garbage. I don't like being put in the same category as pedophiles or people who literally shit on each other. I don't like videos in which people are supposedly being tortured and even killed.
That's not an answer! Repeating the same paranoid crap over and over and over again until everyone's ears bleed doesn't change anything! Who are these people? How do you know them? Why would you listen to them? You don't like to be treated like garbage, but you're happy to treat trans people like lesser people.
Are you saying that because you're gay all these people assume that you're a paedophile? That you're into scat? That you're into snuff films? Just because you're gay? You're a man too (I'm guessing) but where are all the people saying that because of that you're a misogynist, wife-beater and a rapist? Are you not being lumped in with those groups too? Where's the outrage at that?
You come onto this forum and whine and complain about trans people intruding on you? How? Where? Are you suffering from a glut of transgender home invasions where you live? You don't want to share a bathroom with women? I assume you're referring to FTM? Heads up, trans people exist and need to pee. What's more disturbing in a real life scenario: someone who is FTM using a cubicle in a mens room or someone who outwardly presents as male walking in to a ladies room? What's your response when a straight guy says he doesn't want gays using the same toilets because he thinks they're intruding on him?
You can take all that other crap about the age of consent bullshit because you're grasping at straws trying to form a cogent argument and failing miserably. What you actually like or don't like has no bearing on your original post in the slightest. Nobody here has said anything suggesting that you're into children. This is about you accusing other people of treating you differently. Not one response has done anything validate your original post. God, even your original post isn't original because it's just a rehash of older posts where you've dodged and ignored every shred of disagreement.
For fucks sake, you even said that having gays and lesbians forming a group pisses you off, but you won't commit to saying why, other than you don't feel you have anything in common. Apart from who you want to fuck I'd argue that you have as much in common with them as you do with anyone living on your street. How pissed off would you be if the lesbians back then went off and got better rights such as the ability to get married, but the gays didn't because they didn't have the foresight to see that we're stronger together?
Posts like this are like listening to a parrot repeat the same 5 things all day long, except it feel like there's a lot more shit left on the bottom of the cage at then end of it. If you want to make an argument then make it! Stay on-topic (for once!) and make a case, but if you won't then whatever you do don't complain when I (or anyone else) challenge what you say.
Once again, to the mods, I'm sorry. I know I'm pushing the rules replying this way. This attitude just makes me fucking angry.
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@frostycab Not really.... There exists this thing in this world and on this site called free speech, which is a very different thing from hate speech. Hate speech is not tolerated, however free speech is.
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for me im gay as well, so i can mosty identify with that. i have no issues with LGTB, but as im gay only i dont relate so much with LGTB