Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts
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So im gay, with a looot of interests, from vanilla all the way to kinky. If it exists (and is gay), ive probably seen it.
However, sometimes i get bored and browse generic straight porn.
I've noticed that in studio porn in general, if you pick any random str8 video, the girls look really young and innocent, while the guys tend to be these old trolls. Meanwhile in gay porn it feels like every guy is always this perfectly chiseled supermodel. I assume straight guys dont like to feel competition, or need some sort of "hey, i can do that too" ego boost or?
Secondly, is it just me or does straight porn feel a lot more abusive?
Like, im All for rough sex, fetish, bottoms getting treated like fuckdolls and what not, but even in rougher porn it Still feels fully consensual. But in straight porn, even in completely vanilla videos, it always feels like there's such a huge shift in the power dynamics and it legit looks like abuse. All the overacted shouting and crying, tears, guys throwing the girls around like ragdolls, girls in general being treated with no respect whatsoever. And do note that this is completely "vanilla" porn, not something from the dom/sub side.
I honestly find it both fascinating And disturbing haha. But maybe gay and str8 guys do have such a different mindset when it comes to sex and porn.Thoughts or opinions? Or perhaps other comparisons?
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@wolfyboy00 I agree with your opinion
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@wolfyboy00 said in Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts:
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Hah! Otherwise im into old guys (daddies, bears) but I found out that in str8 world porn there is a big chance (easily) to find handsome guys than in gay categories.
If we talk about the gay contents It takes me an hour to find some good contents (handsome guys) to cum. Unfortunately girls turn me off so... -
honestly to me gay/trans porn is too vanilla. is like not being straight is as far as the fetish usually goes without going to weird sites. Ive always said that companies are leaving money on the table by not have having a Trans Facial abuse type site(there has be some rough brazillian ones in the past and they have folded). thought we were going to get it with tgirlshookup but it was just more grooby trash and nothing like hookuphotshot other than the dumb costumes and and sex getting as rough as a bangbros scene.
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Allmost all porn stuff is made by men for men. I think that would reflect how the porn is created. What would the porn look like if it was created by a woman?
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I've done the same. My solution is to go to some vintage studios. While the cheese factor comes in, the music and production values can be worse than sad, the guys may be what you've looked for.
Maybe a thread with hot straight porn actors would be useful. Girls are no thrill for me at all, but I can ignore them if the guy is hot.
Yes, women are downgraded and typically placed in frilly slut costumes, generally treated as shallow objects of servitude, and disrespected totally. This is unfortunately a reflection of society's placement of women at a disadvantage. You'd find it worse abroad.
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Have you also seen how ridiculous and degrading most trans movies are?
As-if gay men want to see trans "gyrls" treated like "rg" women in straight porn?
I think (personal opinion) that this is a HUGE part of why the "amateur" porn (OnlyFans, et. al.) is doing so well!
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They are both overly scripted. First they do oral then this position than that position and finally the cum shot.
Nobody has sex like that unless you watch too much porn and think that is what sex really is.
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I've noticed the "ugly guy, attractive girl" thing too. It bothers me. I don't think anyone goes to porn (much less professionally produced, ultra-HD, manufactured on an industrial scale studio porn) for any kind of realness or is under the impression that the people involved actually love each other or anything, but I'm completely unable to suspend my disbelief long enough to watch it. There's a gay studio or two that does it, too, but I just can't stand it and have to turn the video off either way.
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The think the reason straight porn has ugly guys in it is because the men watching don't want to get a boner watching a hot guy.
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I think it's either that, or an issue where the audience (primarily heterosexual and male) feels as if a more attractive man is some sort of competition. I've seen the reverse of this dynamic a few times where a woman I found unattractive was paired with a man I found very attractive, but I don't think that was intentional.
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@geobear40 said in Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts:
They are both overly scripted. First they do oral then this position than that position and finally the cum shot.
Amen to that...and in male-male porn, the first guy to suck is almost always the bottom. (It doesn't happen that way in my bedroom.)
@adonismix said in Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts:
I think it's either that, or an issue where the audience (primarily heterosexual and male) feels as if a more attractive man is some sort of competition.
I agree. Porn is a business, after all, and the customer base for male-female porn is overwhelmingly male...males who don't want to be threatened by guys with better bodies, bigger cocks, etc.
Conversely, many straight women like male-male porn: They're not as much interested in watching women, but they like watching guys...either solo or paired up.
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@eobox91103 said in Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts:
I agree. Porn is a business, after all, and the customer base for male-female porn is overwhelmingly male...males who don't want to be threatened by guys with better bodies, bigger cocks, etc.
Better looking (particularly, in better shape) I can agree to... but bigger cocks? Having 7+ is a de-facto requirement for Str8 porn, and a huge plus in gay porn! Personally, as a guy who isn't hung "in the top 10% of all males" I enjoy seeing "smaller" guys - tho it is annoying when they are ONLY cast as bottoms!
Seth Peterson (Helix) is an example... not a small cock, by any imagination, but not nearly as big as the typical "porn cock" - and in the early days of his Helix run, he was ALWAYS the bottom! Someone there finally woke up, or something, because lately he's been very vers in his scenes with them, and he's CERTAINLY vers in his OF content (with bf Aiden Garcia)
I DO believe that men who watch porn like to think of THEMSELVES as one or the other of the actors, and quite honestly, until you put a ruler up to it, most of us think of ourselves as far more "hung" than the ruler shows.. so those bigger dicks aren't so much a THREAT as a vindication that "my dick is that big too"
Conversely, many straight women like male-male porn: They're not as much interested in watching women, but they like watching guys...either solo or paired up.
I have known MANY straight women who LOVE gay porn - because the guys are hotter, and less violent...
Most women are more into romance vs hard, violent sex...
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@bi4smooth said in Straight porn vs gay porn, your thoughts:
I have known MANY straight women who LOVE gay porn - because the guys are hotter, and less violent...
Most women are more into romance vs hard, violent sex...
I think it's not necessarily about romance so much as it is that depictions of women in straight porn - even "vanilla" straight porn - are so cartoonishly one-dimensional and downright degrading. Everything is ultimately brought back to only what one partner wants, women's desire is portrayed as revolving around whatever gets their male partner off without any consideration for themselves, and if you're a woman watching that, I think it's pretty alienating. Gay porn may not be the most romantic, but at least both partners are usually shown to have their own sexual agency and desires and an interest in mutual pleasure.
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@wolfyboy00 My problem is that my taste is the opposite of what is most popular, and I am into kinky stuff that is already a niche.
Like I am attracted towards men age 45 and above, with feeling grossed out buy younger men just as much as with women. And adults without pubic hair make me want to throw up because of pedovibes I get from hairless body’s and dicks without fur are unaesthetic as fuck. So the „old trolls“ in straight porn are pretty much exactly what I like…unshaved, out of shape, not trying to look as hot as possible, while the twinks and hunks in gay porn all look like Ken.And, the straight spanking movies are way more my style, since they most of the time have a plot, and they work a lot more with humiliation, like waiting in exposed positions, get punished in front of other people who suddenly end up making a punishment contest and get creative with enemas and stuff. And the only way to enjoy the strict male principal getting his bare ass beaten is in femdom movies.
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Definitely. Funny thing is the ugly guy/hot girl is how i started to figure out i was gay. I thought i couldnt get it because the guy was turning me off. So i tried lesbian porn but that didnt cut it either. But the so called female friendly porn category was great because they actually made effort on picking a good looking guy and showing him off. Took me a while but eventually the realization i was gay hit me like a brick and now here we are :D.
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