I don't like anal
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Reading the front page poll. I was so surprised there wasn't an "other" option, or "I don't do anal sex" option.
Where are all the non anal guys? I like oral sex and cuddling and frotting. I like rimming, fingering. I have every fetish under the sun, and I'm open to everything. Just don't penetrate my behind, and I'm not gonna penetrate yours.
Where are all the other guys who don't like anal?
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For decades I was not into anal sex at all. There was one guy I had a 3 way with he and his then partner and I had told him how I only wanted to do things like oral sex, mutual masturbation, kissing, etc. and he actually kept begging me to fuck him up the ass and this was a MAJOR turn off to me. This guy then wound up getting "married" to a man he's supposedly "monogamous" with but then the man that really loves being fucked and being a bottom contacted me and wanted me to help him cheat on his husband, fuck him bareback/raw, piss up his ass, and pull my dirty cock out so he could go "ass to mouth".
I told him no way in hell was that EVER going to happen and I basically cut off all contact with him.
It was not until I met my last ex who is versatile that I even tried anal sex at all. I was a top and I did enjoy it but I prefer oral sex and he and I mainly had oral sex, cuddled/rubbed, and masturbated each other and I enjoy all of that.
If I were in a relationship or partnership with a man or woman, or trans person (I am bisexual), who was not into anal sex at all, that would be fine as I prefer oral sex, masturbation, and cuddling/touching/kissing to anal sex, and watching videos of anal sex or reading about it satisfies me. I have never bottomed for anal sex and I don't want to.
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I don't even like looking at anal sometimes in gay porn unless both partners give and receive and it has to be in the spoons position and even then I just don't find it that sexual.
The top is so mean and forceful ramming his dick in the bottoms ass. The bottom always has a limp cock and I don't see the sexual thrill in that. I don't.
I don't like in straight porn that much either. I feel so sorry for that woman. Her ass is getting so destroyed.
I just prefer non penetration gay sex. That's just me.
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I think, for me, it is too focused on.. not that i have never done it or never will.. but I just don't see it as the big finale that seems so ingrained in people's heads
The connection I need to feel with someone for that level of intimacy is something I would find very rarely
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I am not a fan of anal sex either. I have topped on occasion, but reluctantly, and only on request. Never understood the appeal of anal sex. I know it never even occurred to me that anal sex was part of the gay world until I saw my first gay porn, and it took me by surprise then. I cant understand rimming either.
Having said that, I dont mind watching anal sex in porn, but I avoid it in real life. Luckily most of my partners have been of the same bent. Oral, long foreplay, cuddling, ear-nibbling. . . perfect.
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Uhm. I'm not gonna support you guys. Just can't imagine how anal sex can be a turn off. For me it's obvious when your dick is standing it just needs to be put in something. And anal sex is actually the way that two male can connect physically. And coming in each other is such an epic moment.
But I'm just gonna reply to that rimming. Well what can't you understand ? Ass is males erotic area. If you understand doing blowjobs and you understand guys eating girls pussy, that's exactly the same. You just pleasure somebody with your tongue. Even if I don't like bottoming, just teasing with tongue is super pleasant.
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Uhm. I'm not gonna support you guys. Just can't imagine how anal sex can be a turn off. For me it's obvious when your dick is standing it just needs to be put in something. And anal sex is actually the way that two male can connect physically. And coming in each other is such an epic moment.
But I'm just gonna reply to that rimming. Well what can't you understand ? Ass is males erotic area. If you understand doing blowjobs and you understand guys eating girls pussy, that's exactly the same. You just pleasure somebody with your tongue. Even if I don't like bottoming, just teasing with tongue is super pleasant.
I guess it depends on what one finds erotic. For me, the most erotic part of sex is feeling another guy's hand on my penis while we are kissing. In the very early days, just having another guy hold my penis within my pants was enough to set me off.
When I had sex with women, penetration was OK, but it wasnt the best part of sex, so I guess I never felt the need to insert my penis in anything.
And as for rimming, I find that the thought of the (possible) smell + the knowledge of all the gut bacteria very effectively nullify any erotic element to it. Perhaps my medical background has something to do with this, but as I mentioned above, the anus was never a part of my erotic development until quite late. I have never been attracted to nice butts for instance, and dont even notice them on guys - I can appreciate a shapely butt when we are naked, but am not drawn to them. Its all about a guy's face, his eyes, a flat stomach, long legs, an air of confidence and humor, good communication skills.
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I made a thread about this before a while ago and I can tell you that a lot of us aren't into anal. I had the exact same thought when I saw that poll, why aren't we included in the poll ? it's not only about the poll unfortunately we aren't included in anything like we're from another planet or something! anal is supposed to be something you do in private with your guy, but no it's a big forced part of the gay community you have to play a role and carry a label. I don't like anything about anal never turned me on, but away from the act itself I also hate how tops and bottoms act differently. I saw a lot of tops thinking they're more manly and making fun of bottoms, also saw a lot of bottoms thinking less of themselves, like the reason of their whole existence is to serve the top! so anal isn't just sex it's a fucked up scenario we have to live in.
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And as for rimming, I find that the thought of the (possible) smell + the knowledge of all the gut bacteria very effectively nullify any erotic element to it. Perhaps my medical background has something to do with this, but as I mentioned above, the anus was never a part of my erotic development until quite late. I have never been attracted to nice butts for instance, and dont even notice them on guys - I can appreciate a shapely butt when we are naked, but am not drawn to them. Its all about a guy's face, his eyes, a flat stomach, long legs, an air of confidence and humor, good communication skills.
I can see where you're coming from. I didn't study medicine but I had some classes like biology or virusology and I had to analyze all kind of weird bacterias. After few months of observing them through the microscope I got a phase that I literally saw bacteria and bugs everywhere. It disgusted me. But even though I'm aware of all that things I just don't find ass disgusting. So I wouldn't bet on that. Obviously - I'm not gonna lick randoms guys ass because that would be yeah… pretty risky ? But I had a lot of them and didn't have any weird accidents. Bad smell ? well haha, it's funny because the only guy I didn't rim was my longest time boyfriend xDDD he was fat and I ... I just couldn't xD Depends on a guy maybe too then ? Well I wouldn't be the first one to rim because I get why it... maybe not disgusts you - but why you have barriers. Even though I'm doing it and enjoying I can understand. But you got to see my ex's ass. You would love it and turn into ass worshipper : D This was something you just couldn't take your eyes or tongue off. Beefy muscled guy with a great ass and such high quality hygiene. Like shaving everyday, erasing hair on the back, using all kinds of creams, treatments. He was so well cared, like wow. To be honest. I would be more disgusted by myself than me. Really. I disgust myself more than he does. He could fucking piss on me and I would be like, well dude ok, nvm. SO THE POINT IS - maybe the right person will make you change your view ?
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i did not liked it either from the beginning until i met someone who i really liked. he is a top and insisted fuck me. it was not enjoyable at first but after a month or two i got used to it and start to like it. Now i only have anal sex. he almost always fucked me till i shoot and I don't even need to touch myself. And a lot of time when he sees me cum and would just cum in me at the same time. I guess you just need to meet someone who you really like and keep on trying.
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I enjoy anal, particularly receiving. But it's also a hassle to prep for it, which is not very conducive to passionate, spontaneous sex. I don't consider it essential for good/"legitimate" sex either way.
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i did not liked it either from the beginning until i met someone who i really liked. he is a top and insisted fuck me. it was not enjoyable at first but after a month or two i got used to it and start to like it. Now i only have anal sex. he almost always fucked me till i shoot and I don't even need to touch myself. And a lot of time when he sees me cum and would just cum in me at the same time. I guess you just need to meet someone who you really like and keep on trying.
It's not that. I think we are all into different things.
Some people are turned off by feet, piss, shit, vomit, blood, slave role-play, torture, couples fighting and beating each other up, slapping, erotic humiliation, S&M etc.
Nothing of that sort turns me off except anal.
You name any type of non penetration thing you can do with a gay man, and I'm into it.
I just don't like anal and that's the way it is.
The ass was not meant for penetration. For men or women. But to some people they like anal, I'm not one of them.
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i dont like anal sex at all and cant even stay hard for it
and the bad thing its hard to find guys who are into oral only i like to kiss and i love giving head(im really good at it hehehehe) i also love to receive and i like to rim but dont want to be rimmed or fucked and im still a virgin back their -
The ass was not meant for penetration. For men or women. But to some people they like anal, I'm not one of them.
I can't imagine how you must feel about urethral sounding, then.
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The ass was not meant for penetration. For men or women. But to some people they like anal, I'm not one of them.
I can't imagine how you must feel about urethral sounding, then.
Well it's a moot point.
If my partner wanted to do that on himself, that's fine. I'm not gonna do it. I just don't trust it. There are safer sexual pain rituals you can do to your body.
The vagina is really the only orifice that can suffer harsh movements. It can push a baby out of it for christ sake.
Sticking things in your urethra is kinda risky.
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It's not that. I think we are all into different things.
Some people are turned off by feet, piss, shit, vomit, blood, slave role-play, torture, couples fighting and beating each other up, slapping, erotic humiliation, S&M etc.
Nothing of that sort turns me off except anal.
You name any type of non penetration thing you can do with a gay man, and I'm into it.
I just don't like anal and that's the way it is.
The ass was not meant for penetration. For men or women. But to some people they like anal, I'm not one of them.That is like the most retarded and disgusting thing I read this week.
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the dick was not made to play around with it but to make children, dont jerk off kids ;D
