Pain during penetration: dick vs toys/fisting
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Yo guys, I wanted to ask you something cause it really baffles me:
I'm a vers dude in general but I mostly prefer to bottom, however, some months ago, I started having very very acute pain whenever a guy fucked me, to the point it would bring tears to my eyes. Lubrication was not a problem, the pain was still there even with a shit ton of lube. But that's not the weird part. The weird part is that I might struggle when being fucked by a dick, however I feel zero pain and extreme pleasure when using toys. It doesn't matter if the toy is small or pretty big, I can take it pretty easily inside me and it feels amazing. In fact, I even got halfway through fisting myself (almost past the knuckles) and that didn't hurt either.
I think the problem might be hemorrhoids. My dad has it, several other people in my family have it, I'm not sure if it's a gene thing but if it is there's a big possibility I have it too. BUT, I recently read on a fisting forum thread that many people with hemorrhoids have a similar case with me: they cannot do normal penetration (that is, with a dick), but they are apparently perfectly fine with taking an entire punch or a girthy toy up their butthole with ease. Some guys even said that after starting fisting, their hemorrhoid problem completely vanished, even though they have been struggling with it for years.
Does this whole thing make sense to you? Can any of you provide an explanation why this might be a thing?
If you have a similar experience or any opinion on this, please share! -
I have one and only one suggestion….you need to go to a doctor....ASAP
I have survived 2 diff. types of cancer and you should not test obvious red flags. -
It's prob the worst tying to see a doc about, but yeah, might have to
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Yo guys, I wanted to ask you something cause it really baffles me:
I'm a vers dude in general but I mostly prefer to bottom, however, some months ago, I started having very very acute pain whenever a guy fucked me, to the point it would bring tears to my eyes. Lubrication was not a problem, the pain was still there even with a shit ton of lube. But that's not the weird part. The weird part is that I might struggle when being fucked by a dick, however I feel zero pain and extreme pleasure when using toys. It doesn't matter if the toy is small or pretty big, I can take it pretty easily inside me and it feels amazing. In fact, I even got halfway through fisting myself (almost past the knuckles) and that didn't hurt either.
I think the problem might be hemorrhoids. My dad has it, several other people in my family have it, I'm not sure if it's a gene thing but if it is there's a big possibility I have it too. BUT, I recently read on a fisting forum thread that many people with hemorrhoids have a similar case with me: they cannot do normal penetration (that is, with a dick), but they are apparently perfectly fine with taking an entire punch or a girthy toy up their butthole with ease. Some guys even said that after starting fisting, their hemorrhoid problem completely vanished, even though they have been struggling with it for years.
Does this whole thing make sense to you? Can any of you provide an explanation why this might be a thing?
If you have a similar experience or any opinion on this, please share!Yeah I get it. But I just don't understand a thing. How can it be possible? What's so different about a dick and a dildo that it triggers you so much. You sure it's a problem with hemmorhoids? Not with your mental state? Like doing that to yourself is easier than doing by someone else. Does it happen to when someone else puts a dildo in you ?
I'm afraid I can't help you but I have the exact opposite ;D I don't feel pleasure from anal sex as a bottom so I won't put any dildos or toys in me but I have a weakness towards the dick. So I can't even finger myself because my ass is so tight and stuff but I just sometimes can't help myself but sit on a dick even if it hurts
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Yeah I get it. But I just don't understand a thing. How can it be possible? What's so different about a dick and a dildo that it triggers you so much. You sure it's a problem with hemmorhoids? Not with your mental state? Like doing that to yourself is easier than doing by someone else. Does it happen to when someone else puts a dildo in you ?
I guess it's like this: when you use a dildo, you (or your partner) use it with your/his hands. That means you can control it better than a dick – some people are so clumsy and abrupt when using their dick to fuck a hole that it can hurt you. With a dildo (or a finger, or a fist) everything is more easily controlled (speed, depth, etc). So for a person who has hemorrhoids (or just any other kind of problem) and can't take stuff in his ass easily, dildos and hands work the best than the dick of a clumsy fucker
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I see what You're getting at…
But I just can't imagine a fist being more gentle than a dick.
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it really depends
you can relax outer muscle but inner muscle there's no way you can relax it manually, penetration should happen and it will relax itself,
doing it yourself you can control, you know when to let go, when to pull out or push it in,
other they won't know, most guys just pushes right in, "what that's what they do it in those porn"thats why they go by fingers, actually its quite different, Hardened soft tissues are still a soft tissues not a bone,
relax, find the right time and atmosphere for both of you and your partner,
if you rush it it will happen,or like me, anybody can fuck me anytime, I would feel pain but I'm used to it to the point I actually enjoy anything, its a penis, lol
