Ejaculating but not satisfied
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Everything was ok but since a month or two my bf has stopped having hard rock erections at first we thought it was stress related but now we are past that phase since there is no such stress we love each other a lot … lately he is also complaining that he is not getting proper erections even when he watches porn he does not ED since his morning wood is rock solid almost every other day. Now he also tells me that whenever he cums the semen does come out but his orgasms are gone and he does not feel the pleasure the one gets out of orgasms no such feeling what so ever.
Has anyone ever faced this or has gone through it. He is 39 yrs old and healthy and fit no history of any disease at all whatsoever.
Just worried about him is he ok please let me know if anyone can share anything of the sort.
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is he under any medication (one can be healthy and yet take some pills ) or natural supplements? If he is and that wasn't the problem before it can be as the body gets older.
If he's not ..hum try some natural herbal stuffs like " horny goat" ( that really improves both erection and orgasm) or " mucuna pruriens" and of course L-arginine /selenium/zinc for the balls
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Agree regarding medication.
I take Effexor for my anxiety, if I take a double dose (which I am permitted to do) I often cum seconds before I orgasm.
Also my erections definately change.Lastly, if he is taking a multi-vitamin I suggest he stops and see if the issue goes away.
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Medications are the number one reason for ED type effects.
I have had meds in the past that caused me to orgasm without ejaculating, but I have also had meds that killed my sex drive completely.
Stimulants can also cause ED effects, but more from extended use than just occasional use.But if he has wood in the morning, that means everything is physically working correctly. Theres just something causing a bit of interruption.
Talk to your partner and find out whats going on.There is another reason for someone not to have a hard erection. That is because they have already ejaculated prior.
If you get him in the morning and its rock hard, but late in the evening he is kind of not into it? There is a reason. -
This thread is not about infidelity its about cumming and not feeling the orgasm I have had a detailed discussion and we have tend to take it slow and not rush to conclusion and things at all. People think if they are not getting something from their lover its because he is cheating behind their back but that is not the case here with me guys.
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Obviously the first thing to suggest is to talk to your doctor to make sure its not anything physical. Even with strong morning wood it still might be especially since there are mulitiple things going on.
As far as the reduced orgasm age might have something to do with it unfortunately. As I went through my 40's (Im 47 now) I did notice a sharp decrease in the intensity of my orgasms. Doctor says theres nothing wrong physically and that it was a common part of aging. :cry2:
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I've had a similar problem in the past. I get huge erections and when I cum, there's no orgasm. I went to the doctor and it turned out I'm consuming way too much Vitamins pills. He told me to stop taking all my Vitamins for at least a week. Also, drink a lot of water. I did that and my orgasm came back. Maybe your BF is having the same problem as I did.
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I'd say, go to the doctor. period.
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Maybe he'd been doing it a lot. Try to take a rest from doing any sexual stuff like a day or two and try again. But just like what any medicine says "If symptoms persist consult your doctor/physician".
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could be two things:
medications
excessive jerking off to porn
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could be two things:
medications
excessive jerking off to porn
Can the second one be healed ? xd
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well definitely go to doctor I 'd say
but in my case I've never felt an orgasm. lol
I just cum, that's all -
Welcome to the real side-effect of "a community that is ALL about cumming" - the pleasure is removed the moment it becomes ALL about his dick shooting. If he quits trying to FORCE himself to cum as quickly & quietly as possible, this might change.
Everything was ok but since a month or two my bf has stopped having hard rock erections at first we thought it was stress related but now we are past that phase since there is no such stress we love each other a lot … lately he is also complaining that he is not getting proper erections even when he watches porn he does not ED since his morning wood is rock solid almost every other day. Now he also tells me that whenever he cums the semen does come out but his orgasms are gone and he does not feel the pleasure the one gets out of orgasms no such feeling what so ever.
