Sex toys as gifts?
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A guy I'm seeing gave sex toys as gifts for the holiday. Not dildos but flesh light types. He was going to give a tenga masturbation toy to someone but found a regular flesh light type (seriously, what's the blanket term for these?) so I ended up having the tenga clicker toy.
It's shaped like an egg and you fill it with lube then put it on. There's soft textured nubs inside to give you a different feel when you jerk off.
It's not weird when a guy you're seeing gives you a sex toy, is it? Like he wants an alternative to sex with you? But I did test it out in front of him.
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If you're both into it, then why not?
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i would like it if someone who was seeing gifted me a sex-toy and i would definitely try it together with him
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Not only I don't think it's weird, I actually think it's pretty rad! It shows that the guy you are seeing is pretty open-minded when it comes to sex subjects, and those people, the ones with no complex on sex or sexuality are the best of the best :cheers: :cheers:
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i hope to try it
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It's not seen as, I dunno, competition from an inanimate object? Or even a substitute? Like, why would I top you when I can use a fleshjack or why would I bottom when I can use a dildo? I mean, if your boyfriend gives you the gift, haha.
I used the darn tenga egg several times now, haha. I want to try a different one, hehe
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my BF gift me HOT Bear :laugh:
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I was given lube and video head cleaner during a secret Santa this past season. I haven't used the vhc but lube is always a welcome gift!
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I was given lube and video head cleaner during a secret Santa this past season. […]
It took me a minute to realize that video head cleaner = poppers
I was like, why the fuck someone thought that a combination of lube and a cleaning product for tapes is a good idea?? :laugh: :laugh: -
I don't find it weird giving sex toys to or getting sex toys from someone I'm seeing. Though I did think it was a little strange he was giving others sex toys. Maybe it's just me, but it something I wouldn't think of getting for a friend.
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[…] Maybe it's just me, but it something I wouldn't think of getting for a friend.
I think it depends on how close you are with that friend and how comfortable you are with each other when it comes to sex topics etc. Personally I wouldn't have a problem at all if anyone bought me a sex toy as a gift, but I would not give someone a gift of that kind unless I knew they were okay with the idea (whether it's a friend or a lover). Last thing you want to happen when giving a gift is make the other person uncomfortable. So, yeah, I kinda get what you mean, and it's totally normal in my opinion to think like that
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Nope, i would preffer the money.
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i like sex toy
