Really drunk guy wants to fuck…. yes or no?
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Would you do it?
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probably.
yeah, pretty sure.
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yes lol
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One time I knew a straight guy who was fairly cute. I think he was confused about his sexuality and was lonely. I could maybe have made a pass when we were both drunk. However, in hindsight I probably wouldn't have. It might be "taking advantage". If he was curious just out of lust, then I would. But he seemed unhappy.
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hell yeah!
If he's hot -
I've had sex while drunk more times than I can count (I like my liquor – it's a work in progress, haha).
I actually worry a lot more about being the drunk(er) guy in bed, so I always disclose it first verbally -- "I'm smashed, just so you know." I know I'm going to be a little clumsy and goofy, may forget myself and get too rough, may take me twice as long to cum (believe it or not, sometimes that's not a good thing), etc.
Not once have I ever actually felt like I was taken advantage of when I was drunk, though. I'm generally the initiator when I'm like that, and the only thing that has really changed is my level of bravery -- I wanted to do it all along. Then again, I also never become this fall-down, incoherent, sloppy drunk I've seen others turn into. I can always walk, talk, and answer questions, no matter how silly I get. I also don't "black out." I always remember.
I suppose the best answer is, "how drunk is he"? If he's coherent enough to verbally talk about how drunk he is, carry on a basic conversation (even if it gets silly, slurry, and giggly), and still insists that he's down to fuck ... I'd be okay with it. I've been on the other side of the equation many times, and I know very well I'm dead serious when I agree that sex should happen, haha.
I think the "no drunk sex because it's always rape" scary admonition fails to recognize the full spectrum of inebriation (also the fact that a lot of the time, it's mutual drunkenness). It's definitely the right thing to not proceed when you're dealing with people that can NOT answer you back, at least not understandably, can NOT stand up and walk around, and don't seem to be fully aware of where they are and what's going on in general. Again, there is a spectrum of "drunk." It's definitely not cool to play around with someone, even if it was a date, who's in that state. If he's past the point of knowing what's going on, you really are a rapist.
Active participation in the event is probably the best way to tell where your partner is, in terms of cognitive responsibility. If he's just a bit tipsy and slur-goofy, but can talk about his plans for next week, how horny he is, is eager to make out and cuddle and explore and is an ACTIVE participant in the play, and can give you a clear, enthusiastic "yes" ... then go for it. He's still in control of his decisions at that point.
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What if you're drunk and can't get hard?
If you're the bottom, well, you might be more relaxed but not feel and enjoy it.
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There's concerns over drunk sex, like what about consent?
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depends, but mostly yes
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i would help him to get more drunk hahaa
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I personally don't drink.
Call me a wuss, but my first instinct when I see someone I know who's really drunk, is to get them into bed (Not in a sexual way lol)
None of my drunk friends have tried to sleep with me, but if they did offer, my response would probably be, "You're drunk. You probably aren't thinking clearly. Ask me the same thing in the morning and I'll think about it
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dont know but maybe they want cause that gave them plesure
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that's the problem with alcohol, that makes you horny but too much provokes erectile dysfunction
. the worst that can happen is that on the moment you dont care about condoms. I did a guy in the toilet of some gay bar, bareback. we were both drunk But yeah next morning that's not fun coz you have to wait a month to be tested. Though being the top the risk is lesser. But that's not something to do (I cant meet guys in clubs or bar if i'm not drunk anyway). -
No… I don't drink nor take drugs and I couldn't stand to be with a guy who used them without caring about himself or the others.
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If he's hot and willing, why not… my gain!!
We are all adults, we know what we are getting ourselves into.. lol
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I did'n enjoy sex while drunk, i don't know, maybe my boyfriend isn't good while drunk, or i'm less sensitive, i don't know.
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I don't do drunk sex. Been sober for years. Did when I was a drunk.
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Big no .
where is the pleasure of being with someone who is probably asking you because he is drunk ?? . -
Shy to say, I love to drink too much even more than sex.
We have a saying, let's drink and be merry for tomorrow we die.
In this dessert area, there's nothing much else to be merry about.Call me debauched if you must but I love sex while being drunk. I don't care.
But being the drunkard that I am, I'm very well aware of myself even when drunk and alcohol brings up the sexual feelings while being penetrated by someone that's not my choice.All those studies about erectile dysfunction or not consenting seem not to be my experience at all. Through the ages, how can there be merry making like sex without drinks to up the fun? I just got to have that drink very badly before I'll even think of allowing him near me. All that anxiety seem to evaporate and I can act whatever I want to and I fuck care about the bloody world.
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No. It's less fun, sloppy, some guys can't stay hard. I much prefer to fully enjoy sober.
