Am I gay?
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Am I Gay?
I'm young I'm 18. I like girls, spending time with them. I would like to have a wife, kids.
But if it regard about sex I prefer men especially older 40+. Not for love, just for pure sex. -
I'm kinda the same man, I also find myself married with kids but only with a woman.
Although I do find big bearded and hairy men very attractive and would have sex with them too. I'm not sure if I would ever love a man more than a woman so yeah.
You're not gay, is possible that you're bisexual but you might also be Heteroflexible.
And that's why I have an account in this tracker, for the bear porn lol. -
I'm happy for both of you. U guys have best of both worlds.
I used to have a married daddy as lover, and I know how much it hurts to keep the relation going on, and how devastating it is when the relationship is over. I think it is fair to say that, married guy can't love his gay lover equally, and tremendous efforts are required to keep their "darker side" in privacy.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not mad at bisexuals, and I'm not going to stop married guy looking for 3rd party to fulfil their sex need, But Please Consider the Destruction that you are about to inflict on the gay lover. I'm talking about the monogamous love with the other half. The condition might be favourable if the relationship is in polyamorous mode.
You shouldn't strings the gay person. It's painful. It's painful.
No love should exist within your family. As far I can see… Only one condition that it might work for bisexuals.. Only if your occasional meet-ups are just for pure sex. -
The term 'gay' is generally regarded as referring to someone who is exclusively sexually attracted to people of the same sex as themselves. It's just a label though. It's one that works for some people - I describe myself as gay - but others find other ways to describe themselves.
The thing to remember is the you're you; if you adopt the label 'gay', it tells you nothing new about yourself. Rather than worry about what label to apply to yourself, I'd look to see what sexually excites you. If you're a member of this site I assume that men do. If women do too, then you have some options. If not then it may be that a wife and children is going to be difficult for you.
I wish you every luck in discovering the details of this important part of yourself, and I'd remind you that gay, straight or bi are nothing more than labels which will never tell you anything new about yourself.
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Am I Gay?
I'm young I'm 18. I like girls, spending time with them. I would like to have a wife, kids.
But if it regard about sex I prefer men especially older 40+. Not for love, just for pure sex.Short: Yes, you are, except for you've tried to kiss/fuck/whatever a girl and you've liked it.
Long:
Have you fall in love with someone ? Yes? Boy or girl? Never? Depending on the answers you are more gay or bi.
If not sure, don't worry, for some people isn't as clear as THIS or THAT (especially at your age), and there are levels, like [the kinsey scale]](http://vistriai.com/kinseyscaletest/)
And be honest with yourself, don't use the wish to have kids as a excuse to like women. -
Am I Gay?
I'm young I'm 18. I like girls, spending time with them. I would like to have a wife, kids.
But if it regard about sex I prefer men especially older 40+. Not for love, just for pure sex.I found myself in a similar position when I was younger. Feeling like the only way to go would be to grow up, get married to a nice girl, and have some kids.
But I had no attraction to them whatsoever, which made it so I had to deal with those feelings and I pretty much gave up on the fantasy that I could force myself to be with a woman just because it fit this image of how I felt a family had to be.
If you are attracted to women, rather than just liking them for relationships (I.E. you don't want sex with them), then hey you're probably bi and can enjoy sleeping with whoever.
But if you're unable to really have sex with a woman due to a lack of attraction, then you probably are gay. In which case you may want to readjust your perceptions of how a relationship can work, as it isn't exactly impossible to have a loving relationship with a man much the same way you could with a woman. As far as kids, there's always surrogates?
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I'm gay, and I used to feel the same way.
Why would you like to have a wife? Are you both physically and emotionally attracted to women, or is it just "the right thing to do," in your mind? -
I felt the same when I was around your age. I was physically attracted to men but romantically more interested in women, mainly because I had that fantasy of having a wife, kids, a dog and a house in the suburbs. It just seemed like what I was supposed to do. Also, as much as I lusted, I'd never had feelings of more than friendship for a guy, at least not that I could recognize. It wasn't until I was in college that my feelings started to change, and I became romantically interested in men.
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Well I liked older guys too
I was even less than a teenager. I had such a crush on my best friend's dad. God, I didn't even know what sex is then. But I had moments even when I was 15 y.o. that I should try with a girl. I saw one that I really liked and then she hopped on the bus with me and I was like "maybe that's it, this feeling, happiness , maybe that's love". But to be honest I was just happy to see her 
You will have doubts. And you will have problems in finding yourself out.
I don't say "You are gay. Deal with it."
Maybe you are straight and have lust that's hard to describe.
But I'm just showing you a way that it might be. You could say I didn't really have a DAD. That's probably how it all developed. But if you don't think of being gay as something weird and scary, just something natural then you might be closer to getting that answer you're seeking.
Maybe you don't dream of having a wife and kids. Maybe you dream of having just a family. And family can be created by two men too you know We just have to see it. We were raised to think of a family as a husband, a wife and kids but that's just a myth. Family is where your home and heart is Think about it. -
gay but not that gay hehe i'd like to have kids too but when it comes to marriage i'd marry a man or a women
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Let's just get rid of all the labels. If you feel an attraction to someone and they feel the same way… why not? There is no need to overthink it too much. Now in matters of love that becomes different.
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gay but not that gay hehe i'd like to have kids too but when it comes to marriage i'd marry a man or a women
Haven't you made your mind yet?
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