What Does Bottoming Feel Like?
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I know.. silly question. As a virgin, I guess I was just wondering what it feels like, and maybe why so many people become strictly tops or bottoms.
I've used dildos and such before, but don't seem to get much of a sensation, yet always find myself wanting to do it.
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I think it depends on the top's technique, really. Specifically, I think it depends on whether or not he can hit your "p-spot", which is a big part of the pleasure of bottoming IMO… It's like being on the edge of an orgasm, really. Actually, it can even lead to a complete orgasm.
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I know.. silly question. As a virgin, I guess I was just wondering what it feels like, and maybe why so many people become strictly tops or bottoms.
I've used dildos and such before, but don't seem to get much of a sensation, yet always find myself wanting to do it.
Well guys who are strictly top or bottom I think has more to do with mindset and preference, some guys just don't like to have a cock up their ass and some only like to get fucked.
Your mindset has a lot do it with how bottoming feels. Personally if i am in the mood to bottom and want it a lot, it feels really good, always painful in the beginning so don't be put off by the pain. My advice don't try to do it with someone who you think have a big cock, pick average size. Start small haha
Definitely make sure you are ready down there, meaning clean. That definitely helps with feeling better about it.
As other guys mentioned tops technique has a lot to do with it, if guy is doing it right it I always feel like i'm about to cum and that sensation doesn't go away. There were times where i even came without hands cos guys were that good. -
The most common thing I've heard is "it feels like you have to poop only it feels good"
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That's what i would like to know!
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It depends on many things. Being relaxed is the best thing you can do and a good lubrication will do wonders. I'm a bottom and I've had good and bad experiences. Sometimes it feels like heaven and sometimes can be uncomfortable or painful. If you can find a way to hit the prostate, it will be great. Both the top and the bottom are in control of what happens. If you decide to do it don't be too worried or too conscious, just let yourself feel the pleasure.
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It feels wonderful
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Once you get into it, it can feel so amazing. There have been times where I have never felt more alive and OMG the orgasms, there have been times my orgasms were so powerful I thought I was dying, but I was in heaven.
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It feels like heaven. Like masturbating after not doing it for a week. It depends a lot on the shape of the cock. My current bf has very little experience and sex with him is awesome. I had a fuckbuddy who was 29 and had a lot of experience and his cock only made me feel pain and nothingness lol.
Also it shouldn't really hurt if you prepare with lube+fingering before taking it. Never do it with saliva, anal fissures are not worth it.
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Guys become bottoms because they're insecure and have performance issues "What if I'm not good enough. What if I don't last long enough." So they don't try at all and become a bottom.
Guys become tops because it feels good to be inside something. It's what an erection is meant for. It doesn't matter to them if someone doesn't think they're doing a good job. As long as they can have their fun.
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Well I have not had experiences with many guys but I have mixed answer.
With the last guy I was, don't know why it felt so amazing… I had to ask him to fuck me hard (which I do not say normally)... he fucked me briefly but it felt wonderful... after sex when I went to the bathroom.. I was bleedingBut it could depend on the guy and how he is fucking you...
once I tried fingering my hole, just to find out about the p-spot and where it is... It felt so good... I was fingering my self exploring my ass.. It felt as if I will pass out... the feeling was so nice..
So may be first try fingering and prepare yourself... this may help to take the cock well and feel good while bottoming... try control the fucking yourself first after he is in... and ask him to fuck in the desired position in whichever you felt good...
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Guys become bottoms because they're insecure and have performance issues "What if I'm not good enough. What if I don't last long enough." So they don't try at all and become a bottom.
Guys become tops because it feels good to be inside something. It's what an erection is meant for. It doesn't matter to them if someone doesn't think they're doing a good job. As long as they can have their fun.
That's unbelievably absurd!
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its very deffrent betwen use dildo and real sex relation on bed
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u can try another things to fill what u looking for
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A thick, hard cock.its very hot in ass
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it depends on whether you like him
