Str8 acting guys
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Iknow it looks homophobic, even though i'm gay but i only feel atracted to stra8 looking guys! by the way, i'm very str8 looking… i find some gay acting dudes interesting but never sexually, am i the black sheep? hehehe lol does madonna hate me? or its internalized homophoby? i just meet a very nice guy , and i find him an amazing profile but i find gross the way he talks and moves, even though i'm top i still like super mqanly bottoms... taught situation!
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just because you mention your not homophobic doesn't mean you said wasn't homophobic. How does one act gay? I think you're looking for the term feminine. Which is totally an okay thing to not like. You like masculine type guys. Just because you like that doesn't mean your homophobic. You're not a black sheep (I don't know what that is and I don't listen to Madonna but out of context clues and google) Just do you dude.
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There is no problem with liking straight acting men. I myself am more str8 acting than alot of my friends and I prefer having a relationship with more of a "str8" acting/looking man. Madonna and RuPaul would applaud you my friend. There is no homophobia present, just preference. If you find this new guy interesting maintain a friendship but not a relationship with him. -
I'm not really particular about this sort of thing, but I will say that every gay guy I've ever met, myself included, has some kind of stereotypically "gay" interests and mannerism(s), and it seems strange trying to suppress them.
In fact, it's a pretty big turn-off when I meet guys who try as hard as they can to be as "un-gay" as possible. It just reeks of phoniness and self-loathing. Then again, I've never really understood the whole straight/married guy forbidden fruit obsession either. I can understand its appeal on a number levels, but it doesn't do anything for me personally.
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I agree, it's as insulting and offensive to assume that there's a way to "act straight" as people assume there is a way to "act gay".
Frankly I tend to get a bit more annoyed at the gays who are so fascinated with what they assume are straight boys in sexy situations, and treat them as superior to gay guys who are okay with themselves and who they are. You see this all over the place: actors, creators of all kinds, musicians…even in porn. It's pretty much exactly the same as the mindless fratboy fantasy of hot lesbians...who don't like guys but would be okay with YOUR dick. And even that fantasy is framed by basically a caricature of "straight" that pretty much pushes the lines of "so conspicuously attempting to present as hetero that it comes off as homoerotic". I think that's what a lot of guys who obsess over "straight acting" and "gay acting" miss, which is why they pretty much always come off as artificial and immature. They're constantly trying to prove how masculine and manly they are, without quite realising that they're just basically pretending on a false premise to begin with.
Musical tastes, diet, physical appearance, hairstyle, facial features, dick size…none of these have anything to do with your orientation. And really, maybe people's assumptions are so sophomoric because it's treated as 'you're either x or y' -- there's no understanding for anything differing from either a pussyhound or wanting to gargle cocks endlessly. No middle ground, no variation.
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You seem to have a problem with femininity in men rather than gayness. You really need to get rid of this idea that men act straight or gay, though. It's stupid.
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the queeny type acting guys are a big turn off
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It's your own preference! no one can change that!
wag kang choosy baka d ka naman yummy" -
its not homophobiac. homophobiacs are generally closed gays and they acting straight and overreacting any type of gays
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The term "straight acting" is derived from a society of toxic hyper-masculinity and completely unprecedented gender roles.
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I read a good article some weeks ago about the "gender theory" that some chatolic fundamentalist are seeing in the proposition of teaching in school in Italy that we are all equal and we must be free to be ourselves.
So, the "gender theory" (in italian is called "teoria gender", keeping the english word just because they don't know how to explain all their bullshit) is that at school in Italy teachers will teach how to masturbate, how to be gay and so on… none of these thing will be teached, obviously, and the author tried to explain the different level of the sexuality of a person.
This article, written by a psychologist, said that there is male and female, but there is also masculine and feminine, and these are 4 different things and neither of the four is tied from the start to the fact that someone is straight or gay or trans.
There are gay people very masculine and straight very feminine, but if male and female are biological, masculine and feminine are concept that depends on society. We think a boy cannot play with dolls (well... he-man is right but barbie is not... then when it grows up and has an obsession for muscle men, make yourself some question... :P), a girl cannot play soccer and similar, or men don't cry for emotion and women cannot lead the family (not as a "man", at least, they clean...), so we think a man very sensible must be gay.On the other hand some gays tend to adapt to the role society created for them. I know a good number of gays (I didn't searched for them... they came in a group of other friends) that don't know (or at least if they suspect something I said nothing to confirm) I'm bi and they mostly behave like the stereotypical gay... they seems having their menstrual cycle in every moment, talk in falsetto even if they can have a very deep voice, they talk about themselves as fags or queers and so on...
Most of the time this annoy me and in this occasions I must have a disgusted face because they begin to exagerate this...I'm not acting "straight"... I'm not punching other people, I try to not burp in public and other gross things, but I'm not talking like the stereotypical gossip girl either... I'm me, but this doesn't mean that other maybe don't like how I behave, like I don't like how these friend behave... everyone has his preferences...