Golden Shower is not 4 pussies.
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I'm a top, and i love giving a dude an amazing golden shower. But i realized that, mostly, guys say they want it but when it comes to real action they don't really want . Is this another superfical gay high-theorical midiatic fetiche?
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They get horny on the humiliation, once it's real most do not want it… for fear of looking either weak or depraved.
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Well, I don't know about that… I love getting drenched in piss! :gs:
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I always try to get a feel for where someone is with piss play before we play, as I enjoy it in one of two ways.
1. As part of Dom/sub play. Here, it is about me physically taking control of the sub. We may start rough housing or full on wrestling on the bed. Once I have him pinned and under my control, I have no qualms about pulling my cock out and pissing on him to remind him just HOW MUCH control I have, and just how submissive he is to me.
2. Mental / Psychological, mindfuck type play. With this, I simply like making submissive guys beg for me to do all kinds of things to them that they may or may not find sexually stimulating, but want to participate in to feel submissive and or powerless. Say a sub is chomping at the bit to get to my cock (He's just looking to suck, mind you). I have him wetting up my underwear with his spit as he tries to suck my cock through my boxer briefs. I let him take my briefs off, and take only the head of my cock between his lips and into his mouth, with no movement at all. I look down and ask him if he wants more, and he responds positively with his lips wrapped tightly around my cock. "You sure?" I ask. He moans positively again. "I want to give you more, I want to give you what you want." "But, I have to piss first." "You have to swallow some Daddy piss first before I fuck your mouth and throat silly." "You ready for that?" "You want that?" "If so, then grab my balls gently and slide my cock as far as you can into your mouth." "I'll go slow and I don't want you to spill a drop, OK?"
I like watching the sub process my words, letting them kick around his head before feeling him gently cup my balls and struggling to take me deep. I'll unload a short but intense squirt of piss. Not a mouthful, but more than a few drops. Enough to give a solid taste to make clear to him in his head what he's doing for me. "Swallow it all", I say, feeling his throat work to get the piss down. "You like that Daddy piss?" "You ready for some more?" "Let me hear you moan if you want me to keep going." 9.5 / 10 times I get that moan of submission, and we're off to the races. When he's swallowed what I deem enough piss, he gets the chance to actually suck my cock. If he's really good and moans enough while I'm talking trash to him reminding him of everything he's done to get me so close to cumming in his mouth, I throw that last thing at him. "Play with my balls gently while you're sucking me if you want to swallow my load of cum." "Show Daddy you wanna be his cum AND piss pig". Within minutes of him starting to gently tug at my balls while continuing to suck and groan, I am unloading in his mouth. We both get what we want and need.
I find it easy to get a guy into either of those two scenarios, but you have to talk ahead of time to see which is most appropriate. There's also those guys out there that are into the piss public humiliation aspect. They like to be pissed on and made to go out in public clearly wet, but that does nothing for me really, so I only do that if it's going to lead to something else that I am interested in.
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^^^^ I would love to serve a guy like you.
Soon I'll have my first BDSM session. Golden Shower is one of the practices my Dom wants to try with me. Hope he has as much imagination as you.
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As a guy who loves golden showers, and someone who has done them since I was a teen(gived and received) , I think I have figured out the psychology behind them. Keep in mind that I am not a psychologist and that these are just my observations and thoughts.
1.The most likely origin for this fetish is time we were kids at the urinals. Even before we were aware of the fact we are gay. It was the first time being surrounded by men with there dicks out, totally relaxed and natural, just doing what men do. So if aroused by these situation,like many of us where, this would be something that gets carved into our sexuality very deep. And that is why gay men are more likely to get into WS or just watching another guy take a leak then general population.
2.Is this guy experienced with WS or not. It's one thing to get turned on by something you see on porn,and completely different to actually do it.
So if he's a newbie you should probably take it step by step. Let him warm up to this new experience. Maybe start with some communal pissing, than pissing on his (or each others) body, than face, than mouth, and at the and drinking it. It can take anywhere from a few minutes to few sessions to get there. -
My husband is Dom and Top. We started to experiment with wet and soon i developed a taste for it. Shure its kind of humilating but i belive it also show my love for him, when im ready to recive everything that comes from his cock….. :love:
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2. Mental / Psychological, mindfuck type play. With this, I simply like making submissive guys beg for me to do all kinds of things to them that they may or may not find sexually stimulating, but want to participate in to feel submissive and or powerless. Say a sub is chomping at the bit to get to my cock (He's just looking to suck, mind you). I have him wetting up my underwear with his spit as he tries to suck my cock through my boxer briefs. I let him take my briefs off, and take only the head of my cock between his lips and into his mouth, with no movement at all. I look down and ask him if he wants more, and he responds positively with his lips wrapped tightly around my cock. "You sure?" I ask. He moans positively again. "I want to give you more, I want to give you what you want." "But, I have to piss first." "You have to swallow some Daddy piss first before I fuck your mouth and throat silly." "You ready for that?" "You want that?" "If so, then grab my balls gently and slide my cock as far as you can into your mouth." "I'll go slow and I don't want you to spill a drop, OK?"
I like watching the sub process my words, letting them kick around his head before feeling him gently cup my balls and struggling to take me deep. I'll unload a short but intense squirt of piss. Not a mouthful, but more than a few drops. Enough to give a solid taste to make clear to him in his head what he's doing for me. "Swallow it all", I say, feeling his throat work to get the piss down. "You like that Daddy piss?" "You ready for some more?" "Let me hear you moan if you want me to keep going." 9.5 / 10 times I get that moan of submission, and we're off to the races. When he's swallowed what I deem enough piss, he gets the chance to actually suck my cock. If he's really good and moans enough while I'm talking trash to him reminding him of everything he's done to get me so close to cumming in his mouth, I throw that last thing at him. "Play with my balls gently while you're sucking me if you want to swallow my load of cum." "Show Daddy you wanna be his cum AND piss pig". Within minutes of him starting to gently tug at my balls while continuing to suck and groan, I am unloading in his mouth. We both get what we want and need.
Wow… This is exactly what I want and need. :cheesy2:
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I'm horny after read this…haha
I always try to get a feel for where someone is with piss play before we play, as I enjoy it in one of two ways.
1. As part of Dom/sub play. Here, it is about me physically taking control of the sub. We may start rough housing or full on wrestling on the bed. Once I have him pinned and under my control, I have no qualms about pulling my cock out and pissing on him to remind him just HOW MUCH control I have, and just how submissive he is to me.
2. Mental / Psychological, mindfuck type play. With this, I simply like making submissive guys beg for me to do all kinds of things to them that they may or may not find sexually stimulating, but want to participate in to feel submissive and or powerless. Say a sub is chomping at the bit to get to my cock (He's just looking to suck, mind you). I have him wetting up my underwear with his spit as he tries to suck my cock through my boxer briefs. I let him take my briefs off, and take only the head of my cock between his lips and into his mouth, with no movement at all. I look down and ask him if he wants more, and he responds positively with his lips wrapped tightly around my cock. "You sure?" I ask. He moans positively again. "I want to give you more, I want to give you what you want." "But, I have to piss first." "You have to swallow some Daddy piss first before I fuck your mouth and throat silly." "You ready for that?" "You want that?" "If so, then grab my balls gently and slide my cock as far as you can into your mouth." "I'll go slow and I don't want you to spill a drop, OK?"
I like watching the sub process my words, letting them kick around his head before feeling him gently cup my balls and struggling to take me deep. I'll unload a short but intense squirt of piss. Not a mouthful, but more than a few drops. Enough to give a solid taste to make clear to him in his head what he's doing for me. "Swallow it all", I say, feeling his throat work to get the piss down. "You like that Daddy piss?" "You ready for some more?" "Let me hear you moan if you want me to keep going." 9.5 / 10 times I get that moan of submission, and we're off to the races. When he's swallowed what I deem enough piss, he gets the chance to actually suck my cock. If he's really good and moans enough while I'm talking trash to him reminding him of everything he's done to get me so close to cumming in his mouth, I throw that last thing at him. "Play with my balls gently while you're sucking me if you want to swallow my load of cum." "Show Daddy you wanna be his cum AND piss pig". Within minutes of him starting to gently tug at my balls while continuing to suck and groan, I am unloading in his mouth. We both get what we want and need.
I find it easy to get a guy into either of those two scenarios, but you have to talk ahead of time to see which is most appropriate. There's also those guys out there that are into the piss public humiliation aspect. They like to be pissed on and made to go out in public clearly wet, but that does nothing for me really, so I only do that if it's going to lead to something else that I am interested in.
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Unlike a lot of the replies – and there's no right of wrong in it -- my experiences with water sports haven't carried strong overtones of dominance or submission. As well, I tend to like it when it's reciprocal to some degree.
It's something that I don't pre-screen sex partners for their enthusiasm, but if it happens organically -- like while sharing a "take a break" shower -- you can generally count me in. :cool2:
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It sounds like the guys you are finding like the idea of watersports but when it comes to the practical they either chicken out or they just liked the idea. There are plenty of people who do like WS out there, its a pretty common fetish. Personally if you ask about my limits the answer is very few. WS for me is not a turn on, but its not a turn off either so if my partner gets turned on by it Im happy to participate.
