Chubby Chasers
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So a little background first. I am 20 years old and I am only attracted to bigger guys and when I say bigger I mean generally 300 lbs and over, don't know why just the way I am. Now, I am definitely not bigger is better type of guy, but lets just say my current boyfriend is in the 390s and adorable! Anyways, wanted to know if there are a lot of other guys out there with this similar interest. I am not talking about bears, just chubs.
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I don't know about there being "a lot" of chasers, but they are out there. I'm a chaser here. My boyfriend is 360 lbs and he is adorable. I think there's definitely a stigma against bigger guys that keeps people from liking them. I've even encountered many chasers who would never date a chub for fear of being judged by others, so they only have sex with them in secrecy. It's sad when I see that happen.
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Maybe slightly off topic, I am 238lbs and love slim / defined / muscular guys…. only issue is they don't like me. Previously I was happy with my weight, its me and I do like good food. However recently I have been dieting, lost a stone so far because I often feel that no man (Thats my type) will ever want me being this weight. I guess the social stigma kind of explains its really.
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Matt, don't change your look because others don't like it. If you are okay being who you are than that is all that matters. For example, my boyfriend is about 390 pounds right now and I would not change a thing about him. He is sexy and adorable, but he wants to lose weight because he doesn't like the way he looks. I have no issue with that, other than the fact he keeps teasing me saying "you're gonna leave me when I lose all this weight, aren't you?" Not sure if I will still find him as attractive as he is today, but that shouldn't stop him from looking good for himself. We will step across that bridge when we get to it.
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Before I lost weight I was quite a chubby guy and never found a chaser. . . . .
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I'm a chubby chaser myself. I always have hard time to find another chubbies. They are sooo rareeee. Most of them keep their sexuality secret, like me.
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Matt, don't change your look because others don't like it. If you are okay being who you are than that is all that matters.
If other people don't find that attractive and you want them to find you attractive and changing your appearance will make that happen then that's what you will have to do. If you are fine with your current situation, then don't change your look. Nothing worth doing is easy. If you like fit men that only like fit men, then become fit yourself. It is not impossible and there are benefits to both sides. Either accept yourself as you are and the fact others will not, or be the change that you want to happen. Throwing up one's hands and saying "why should I change" is childish. If you want something, by all means go and get it.
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I find "chubbies" attractive; I don't know if it has anything to do with the fact that I am skinny and can't gain a pound to save myself. However I do find beefy guys hot.
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I think we shouldn't promote obesity (chubbiness) as it like promoting unhealthiness and lethargy. People may be naturally heavy; however, no one is naturally obese (BMI >30.00). :crazy2:
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I don't think all chubby people are obese. ???
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That's semantics, it is like saying black is not ebony or ivory is not white. They are shades of the same thing.
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It certainly came as a surprise to this old man that there are hot young men who like people who look very different from the way they do. That is esp. a surprise since that standard mainstream hot and horny look is at least peddled as the standard issue stud for both men and women. Even right here in this very thread, the claim is made that fat people are ipso facto unhealthy and therefore, undesirable and unsexy. As it happens, not every man under 30 is looking for a clone as his choice of partner. The Naked Maja was once some men's idea of voluptuous but until the last few years, no one who looked like that would ever have been hired as a model, and "plus size" was a completely unknown planet.
Some people think intellect and humor matter more than superficial appearance, and looks tend not to last, so if that is all an attraction rests on, it's not gonna last. "Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds," said Shakespeare, but rather "an ever fixed mark." And, bless them all, some people want to hold and be held by much larger men. Ideally, as someone said, if the size changes, that's fine too, but not a priority. As with any other sexual interest, there are extremes. "Gainers" who want to be bigger (not more muscular), are out there.
I just wish I had known decades ago that lots of perfectly attractive and desirable guys are out there looking for large people to partner with for play or more. It just didn't really click for me that chasers wanted me as I am and did not consider my size and shape to be an inconvenience or impediment, but something they, bless them, liked for its own sake. Is that clearly said? When we were together, I never really grokked that all the parts of my appearance I had been trained to dislike the most, were in fact advantages and a turn on. Seems obvious that if they were after me, they wanted ME, not an Olympics gymnast or diver, but that took a long time to soak in.
Fortunately, there are clubs and online dating sites, as well as special Events. Special theme nights at gay saunas also exist in the US. What happens in the rest of the world is more than I can report, and I no longer expect to get much in the way of thoughtful or useful responses with specifics from other countries where societies are more– or less-- open about sex and gay sex. A question months ago about rent boys and strait pickups in Europe and points
east, now increasingly on view in commercial porn, brought no answer.Anyway, yeah, there really are chasers who are just like other guys only they would rather frolic with a great big chub than with their mirror image. It may or may not "take all types," but there definitely ARE all types.
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I'm a chubby, I always hated being like this. But lately I found out the beautiful world of chubby chasers and it's making me feel so much better with myself! So I wanna thank you all so much! If you want a young chubby boy to chat with, just send me a PM
(and yes, I know how unhealthy is being obese, I'm a student in medicine, keep your comments for you since you don't know how hard is to change and how much pain gives when you can't reach it) (sorry for my english, I'm italian) -
So a little background first. I am 20 years old and I am only attracted to bigger guys and when I say bigger I mean generally 300 lbs and over, don't know why just the way I am. Now, I am definitely not bigger is better type of guy, but lets just say my current boyfriend is in the 390s and adorable! Anyways, wanted to know if there are a lot of other guys out there with this similar interest. I am not talking about bears, just chubs.
I Like chubby guys.
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It's actually kinda hard to find a chub interested in a slim guy
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I'm with you there… definitely a chaser myself. I don't only go for bigger guys, but there's something about a guy with a big belly that just gets me insta-hard
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I'm a Brazilian guy and here is definitely not "easy" to be meet other chasers, but it's always good when you meet a chubby guy, who doesn't know how beautiful they are, or don't hear it often and you just bright up their day. I just love to change peoples view about this.
We live in a very rigid society that rules over what's we should or not like. Only white/muscular/blond/blue-eyed guys are considered "truly fine".
Anyway! Any chubbys needing some appraise, hit me up! I would love to be a supporter and a friend! ;D :crazy2: :hug2:
God save chubby bellys!
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I have known a couple of young stud muffins who mainly go for big chubby guys. It's just what they prefer.
Everyone has their own likes and taste and I learned a long time ago not to judge.
My youngest son was dating this girl and I just took it for granted she was his age (mid 20's) but one night we met them at a restaurant and she was older than me. Like grandma age.
The next day he asked if it was OK. I just said, "whatever makes you happy". His uncle is the same way. He likes grannies. If they are less than 40 years older, their too young. -
I'm a slender muscular guy, and I fucking LOVE a beer belly/ 300lbs guys….. so fucking hot to me and I use to be embarrassed about it in highschool... then when i hit college, i was like no one actually cares / i dont care what others think anymore! I've never turned back I've been with my chub stud for 3 yrs now.
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I wouldn't necessarily call myself a chubby chaser, but I do like more bigger and stockier chubby guys with meat on their bones.
