Posts made by YayaFigs

My male best friend is a bit of an exhibitionist and sends nudes occasionally.

We've talked about having sex before… Might never happen, but it's definitely a discussion we've had before.

Single… Always falling for the immature, indecisive men.  :blownose:

That may just be the case.
Why do you ask? ^-^

Questions for you:

• Is it possible he has other motives for having you move in?

• Is he aware of your orientation? (are you absolutely sure? See the side note for my concerns)

• Is he in a relationship with anyone, or has he recently terminated a relationship? (this could be a possible motive)

Advice:
Generally when things start getting confusing it's best to sit down and have an honest discussion rather than blunder through.
You could start off with those three questions(or two, if you think he's perfectly aware of your orientation) and see where it goes from there.

Indicate that you're concerned about the possible future of your friendship and moreover that things are not fully clear to you.
After asking him whether he knows about your orientation, you may want to add in what the state of the relationship seems to be from your perspective;
Indicate the views that brought you to the forum in the first place. (this should come after expressing your concerns)

If you choose to move in, be sure to work out rules and expectations for both parties. (so you know whether sexual advances would be stepping over the line)
Be sure that all communications related to this be done in person and that you remain calm. Your repeated consultation with others indicates that you're
really nervous about this. I would suggest that you either find a way to remain calm while talking to him, or that you indicate your emotional status early in the conversation.

On a side note:
I know that I've indicated my orientation to others before and they didn't really understand the first go 'round.
I found out that they thought I was joking or weren't really listening at the time. It's not a situation you want to be in.

Offhand
I'm making quite a few assumptions here. I don't intend to insult you in any way with this post; please let me know if I did.