Posts made by wrstlrfan

Don't be scared of it! Just be you!

I'm 26 and dating a 45 y/o. Nothing wrong with it. Just pursue what makes you happy!

I've got some ideas for potentially sharing these.

If anyone is interested, shoot me a message!

I would say that watching porn and having sex, while they end with a similar result (getting your rocks off) are quite different, and it takes some time to get used to. Watching porn is almost all in your head… Imagining scenarios, etc... Where as having sex with someone is much more about being there with the person and in the moment, exploring their body while they explore yours. I find that I get just as turned on by giving someone else pleasure as I do with someone else giving me pleasure, but that's just me. I started out by essentially just lying there and letting others 'do the work' to me, hah. It's all about what you feel comfortable with.

I wouldn't fret if your first few times are a bit uncomfortable. You are figuring out what you like/don't like. For instance, I find a hand job while someone is licking on my nipples more pleasurable than a blow job. Not everyone likes the same stuff.

Overall, keep exploring with him! And the number one rule I've found in sex is to tell the other person what feels good and/or give suggestions. This makes it MUCH more pleasurable for both people.