Posts made by vdude84

Watery.  Thick cum is kind of a deal breaker for me.

I was scared shitless when I started noticing my hairline receding during my senior year of high school.  I consider myself to be attractive, but the hair loss thing really zapped my self confidence…. and we all know it's all about confidence, not so much looks.

Basically, I spent years trying to have my hair cut in a certain way to hide it.  I stopped being as active - I couldn't sweat because then it would show.  I didn't want to be outside when it was windy because it would mess everything up.  I didn't swim from 18 to 27.  Every time I passed a mirror I had to look to make sure my hair was not messed up.  Just writing this makes me tired... I can't believe I kept that up for years.

I pursued hair transplants.  They told me it was going to be 12,000 for the first session and since I have dark hair I would probably need at least 2 sessions.  They warned me that I would have scarring on the back of my head where they took the donor hair, so I needed to consider since that would basically mean I could never shave it off since I would have big scars on the back of my head.  They gave me prescription for Propecia and I used that for 3 years.  It zapped my sex drive.  That stuff isn't cheap, and it sucks to think I was paying to kill my boners.

And then when I was 27 I woke up and decided I didn't want to live like that anymore.  I went to one of the cheap hair cut places and asked them to buzz it.  I got it buzzed on a 3-guard the first time.  It didn't look great, but I felt a freedom I had never felt before.  I went swimming - I started running again - I no longer had to be worried about my hair.  It does sound a little silly, but when you've basically been living in fear for years it was a relief to say, "Fuck it!"

My second time getting it buzzed I asked them to do it with no guard.  And I've stuck with that ever since...  It looks much better to take it all the way down.  Remember shorter is better when you're trying to hide hair loss.  I bought a pair of clippers and a 0.5 guard and ran it over my head every 4 days in the bathroom; a 0.5 guard is the shortest you can go with a guard, and they're hard to find sometimes (the guards they give you with clippers usually start at 1).  After a few years of trying out different clippers and having increased confidence in my technique, I now buzz it with no guard.  Haven't paid for a haircut in years.  I did shave it with a razor twice, but what guys don't tell you is that your head has this sticky feeling that I could never get used to.  I felt like I would stick to the pillow at night and my head was always shiny.  So, keeping it clipped close gives me no oily shine and I love the feel of it.  Oh, and I'm really thankful I didn't waste money on hair transplants because if I had decided to buzz it, everyone would have known that I tried hair transplants due to the scar(s) on the back of my head.

People at work tell me they can't imagine me with hair.  Guys love to rub my head and I get a lot more attention from guys than I ever did before.  My confidence is through the roof now, and I swear to you it's all about confidence.

Just buzz it.  If you can't stand it you can grow it back.  I wish I hadn't waited until 27.