Posts made by QCDelights

Mostly a Top nowadays used to love playing the bottom role, but somewhere along the way guys just stopped being able to please me that way. I guess it's all part of getting older

Sadly there is no definite answer to your questions. Some people will meet up and immediatly have sex before they even say two words to each other and will be together for decades. The truth of the matter with regard to sex is that it largely will depend on the societal background that you are in as sexual hangups are usually a personal reaction to societal influences. Really it's whatever feels right for you. So if you are comfortable having sex on a first date that's fine or if you would like to wait a year that's fine as well. Remember that sexual compatibility is a major factor in the subconscious cues that will attract you to a potential partner so if you start feeling too rushed or that you're waiting too long that is most likely what your partner is thinking as well. I guess to summarize this little report society's role in the sexual scripting process (yes I went to school for this stuff) "just go with the flow" and use plenty of lube and protection.

Gay Marriage has been legal in New York for years now and the only thing that changed for me is my mother keeps asking when I'm going to get married. It'll take some time but I sure people won't be raising a fuss over it for long now. As for a constitutional amendment I'd have to disagree with that ever being required. I simply feel that as more and more social attitudes change gay marriage will be thought of in the same light as interracial marriage.

I actually saw the video and I can clearly state that life imprisonment isn't enough in this case. It's not so much that he killed that boy, but rather how much he enjoyed it that is truly disturbing. I usually don't support the death penalty, but in this case I'd really prefer a world without that man in it.