The only relationships that work are when you're hot and have some sex to offer. If you're not sexy, guess what? No sex for you unless they're drunk, and definitely not continuous unless you subscribe to old-fashioned rules. Go to Miami, everyone is sex sex sex only once.
You cannot be on the sex apps - that supposedly help you find your partner - Grindr, Scruff, etc. And neither can he. Otherwise, just forget it. It WILL NOT WORK.
Your're writing the 'will not work' out of personal experience? I was philosophizing about that with a friend today.