Posts made by matwlep

@PetShopBoys:

Whether it be for relationships or just hookups, do you prefer to be with someone your size, smaller, or larger? I've seen a definite rise in the whole "chub for chub" thing. In fact, a lot of the chubby guys I attempt to court tell me that they're only interested in other chubs. What do you guys think?

I don't know this chub4chunb thing that much. I for one, being chubby, have a very conventional taste and I like thin, or better: defined and muscular guys. Maybe muscle bears too. I like guys who have something interesting to say and are passionate in life about something… So the number of guys I like who are into chubs is small. And when I find one, he turns out to be too focused on himself and his career and emotionally unavailable. Quality chasers, where are you?

I would recommend a drastic change, I moved to Taiwan where it is very hot and the food is very different and my weight went down almost by itself. I worked out before too.

I don't recommend losing weight fast. You don't want to be left with loose skin. Go slowly day by day.

My front door is glass. See through glass.

As a chubby guy I find this thread fascinating ^^ Keep it going guys! Gosh it's so  interesting to find out what chasers find attractive in you. I can never put myself in your shoes, my tastes are conventional.

@bandut:

Hello guys! Does anyone here know about any gay pro bodybuilder? The only openly gay Pro bodybuilder I know is Michael ergas. Who else?

Oh that is a good topic! Bump! Any one knows gay bodybuilders?

@Anthares:

I'm fluent in 3; as a fourth… I guess I should learn mandarin since, well, they are a conspicuous share of humanity. Not that I like it particularly, just because it might be useful in the future.

Oh I think it's much better to learn a language because you like the country/ies, the culture… It might be more useful to learn some minority language like Hungarian or Swahili... There aren't many people who can speak them, so when an employer is looking for someone with the ability, you will stand out;)

Neither. I like my men showered and fresh. We can get sweaty during sex and thats fine. But no previous sweatiness, just no.

I'm learning Mandarin (I speak 4 others)

我學中文；）

@lordaragorn:

Here it is

I've seen better.

That show was crap. Good riddance.

@Ensenada:

I am a tall, handsome, slim but athletic boy; and I am a chubby bear lover. My problem: all chubbies rejected me, because they only want to be with other chubby men.  :cry2: :cry2: :cry2:
It's so difficult that a chubby man could like to be with a slim guy? I think this is a kind of discrimination too: chubbies wanting only to be with other chubbies…

Tall, handsome, slim and athletic? I'm chubby do you want my number?:>>

PS. There are also many dating websites with lots of chubbies who will be looking for someone like you. Try chasabl.com, biggercity.com and bearwww.com.

@fonon:

people say water-based is the best

I personally don't like water based. I don't take them into account because they dry out v. quickly. With my partner who has a huge penis I use Mr S Leather FIST, which I also use to prepare myself. I tested a lot and this is the best. Try it. It is very slippery, a little creamy, can be used with condoms, but cleans off skin very easily. Many other lubes were hard to clean, you are all kind of oily afterwards.
But the powder version is not good enough.

With my earlier parter, who was more 'managable' size, and we had sex bareback I did use spit. But I already had some lube "inside".