@jazzmale29:
Funny they are on the phone talking now…I guess William is telling Lee goodnight (there is a 2 hour time difference). He calls when he wakes up, on his way to work, on his break, on his lunch, on his afternoon break, when he is on his way home and sometimes after dinner, then before he goes to bed....I am so sick of this I could puke. I guess I am the idiot and the stupid one for being so naive. Yes, he paid for gas when he could but he ate off of me as well. I bought $500 worth of groceries one month and William ate over 1/2 of it......I am considering looking for another place to live and not sure if I even want another lover. Loving someone has brought me grief too many times. Now they are off the phone and I get to hear it once again that if things don't go well for William and his 2nd new job in less than one month that Lee told William that he could come back here....I am closer and closer to being out of here! Lee who is totally blind will be lost without me...I bet if I left tonight William would be back in a week.....getting so over this and fast.
I'm sorry, but I have to ask this. Are you the only one in the household providing income?
If Lee is completely blind, he should be getting disability for total blindness as one of the above posters said. Where's that money going to? If he's not getting it, are you sure the guy is even blind? Stranger things have happened!
You need to run, and you need to run fast! The fact that you know that William would be right back to fill your spot tells you all that you need to know.
I think in this situation, if you truly do care about Lee, it's time to issue an ultimatum. It's really a "you have nothing to lose" situation here.
It's either you or William. And if it's you…then it's time you step up and be the other half in this relationship and start setting your own rules.
1) William is allowed only a certain number of calls per week, none of this 8 times a day crap.
2) He will not set foot back in YOUR apartment (since from what info posted, you're paying all the bills).
3) Lee being blind has clouded your judgement. He might be blind, but I bet he can do anything you can plus some if need be.
Best of luck to you. But it sounds like you need to step up to the plate and demand some changes.
And you sleeping in the guest room while the friend sleeps in the room with your boyfriend????? What the literal fuck???????