well if i can only do one thing and not get caught then probably i'll go transfer a couple of billions of dollars in my bank account…

if you are like me who likes straight guys, then a billion dollars could make a looottt of difference. some guys won't mind actually as long as you have money...

so yeah! bring it on!!!  :hug:

thank you for liking it.

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it doesn't work all the time… but it saved me from a lot of frustration. there are just some cute guys that you can't get over with... and befriending them sometimes just adds false hopes on your end. oh well, never was there a time i hated my self for being like this... i have always love the way i am, and being suppressed on some things just adds spice to my being...

though there are times i wanted to slip some ativan on their bottles. lol...  :police:  too bad it can't be found anywhere here in my place

i used to enjoy just reading threads in this forum and smile about it.
but this topic is a hit for me. so here i am.. posting for the first time…

My name is john and same with the thread starter i am also a closet guy... in my country being gay is really not a problem, but it can be pain in the arse, if you are known to be a straight guy then all of the sudden you turn out to be not.. well this post is actually not an advice coz certainly i am also looking for the answers on how to deal with it...

not to brag or anything, if my looks will be categorized, i am an above average looking person,  in other words i could be a head turner in certain level. 8)...  to add complication to the already complicated situation, my family is quite well known in our local community... so going out in a closet is really not that wise for me to do, considering the possible ramification that it may bring...

just like you also, i like straight guys. liking another gay man is like being gayGay, or gay squared.... or whatever you wanna call it... if someday the world will accept gayness as another  addition to the gender option then being in love to a gay is  another gaynessness. and i would suggest if that will be the case, then it should be classified as  a different gender again, being gaytogay..

my suggestion for you is to befriend them... coz once you befriend them, everything will change.. at least for me....

i have good looking friends, whom i admit i had a crush and a hard on the first time i met them, i can recall that i even masturbated in the bathroom in the middle of a game. hahaha...we were acquaintances that time... but now we are like good friends and all those lusty feelings i used to have is gone... they can go naked in the shower with me and i am confident that i wont have a hard on.... funny if it happened on the first day i met them.. they naked in the shower and saw me having a boner. hahahaha.. that would be very hard to explain.

anyway... thats about it for my first post. and i hope my tip would work for you... and excuse  my english, i am not that really good at it...

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