Posts made by lesteridge

i'd probably never do this… the friendship is way more important to me even if i've had crushes on them or whatever, i just naturally try to suppress it because i don't wanna cross that line

the riskiest place i've had sex was definitely at a bathroom of a hospital complex hahahaha…. it was in another building where all the doctor's clinics were and i chatted with someone from grindr who was nearby. then we went up to like the 5th floor and did it in the bathroom. would have gone well if someone didn't knock after we did it HAHAHA i left first and then the guy must have been shocked that there was another guy inside the bathroom. definitely a risky but unforgettable experience

@aespa:

@lesteridge:

HAHAHAHA ikr but for some reason i really enjoy the rush of having new music to listen to… keeps me alive in a way during this pandemic hahaha

Same. K-Pop has kept me alive in so many ways during the past years. When I see my friends Spotify Unwrapped with Spice Girls, Britney and Girls Aloud on the top, I mean, don't get me wrong, that was cool, but I love the feeling of having new music, new MVs, new performances. If only the western gays would give Chungha, Irene&Seulgi a chance…

YESSSSS CHUNGHA IS A QUEEN she did so well this year, Stay Tonight + Play + Dream of You are all bops! I agree I really wish Western people in general give kpop a chance, the material is endlessly amazing and the genres are just so varied  :love: they don't know what they're missing out on tbh

It's been so so so so hard to deal with urges hahahaha self-pleasuring can only go so far! But yes the fear of getting COVID is way bigger than the urge to have sex or just interact in general…. paranoia is real hahahahuhuhu

In the Philippines, family is such a big part of our culture that it gets hard to fend off those annoying family members at times HAHAHAHA they really pry too much into our personal lives, judging us on our lovelife and chosen careers. Being gay here in general is already a cause for family members to become more annoying than ever  :blink:

@aespa:

@lesteridge:

yes i am actually an avid listener of kpop! started back during Girls Generation/2NE1/Super Junior days and never stopped since. Am currently into BLACKPINK, TWICE, Red Velvet, GFRIEND, TXT, BTS and so much more. It's really fun being a multistan of many groups hahaha the quality of kpop has really improved these recent years!  :love: :cheers:

Life of a multistan is hard man, 5 big comebacks in a week sometimes. So much to keep up.

HAHAHAHA ikr but for some reason i really enjoy the rush of having new music to listen to… keeps me alive in a way during this pandemic hahaha

Personally I don't have one but most hotels/mall bathrooms here in the Philippines have bidets and I love them! I definitely feel cleaner when using it hahaha

HAHAHA agree with the replies above. Ricky Martin is definitely better musically but Maluma…. boy is soooo hot

Blue and 98 Degrees were definitely my fave boybands back in the day…

yes i am actually an avid listener of kpop! started back during Girls Generation/2NE1/Super Junior days and never stopped since. Am currently into BLACKPINK, TWICE, Red Velvet, GFRIEND, TXT, BTS and so much more. It's really fun being a multistan of many groups hahaha the quality of kpop has really improved these recent years!  :love: :cheers:

@Kekkaishi:

I'm under the impression that it is far less likely to contract AIDS/HIV when you swallow than when you bareback
correct me if I'm wrong

Well if you base it solely on statistics, it is far less likely, actually less than 1% chance of contracting AIDS/HIV during oral sex in general even if you swallow. For AIDS/HIV to take effect in your body it has to go into the bloodstream, meaning any break in your skin will most likely allow entry of the virus. During oral sex, unless you have open sores in your mouth or a wound in your gums/oral mucosa, then the danger of contracting the virus is really quite low.

Anal sex in general is very risky especially if unprotected for the bottom/receiver. The anal mucosa is quite sensitive to friction so penetration of the penis usually causes breaks in the skin of the anal entry, thus allowing the virus from the cum to penetrate. Which is why we really do advocate penetration with protection! Hahaha hope this kinda helps

@tuborgnew100:

Hey, is there anyone who need a best friend?
Would like to be close friends with someone who is really lonely and have no friends…
We could talk through chats (text & audio), watch movies online together, share dreams or even travel together somewhere oneday
Me interested in pretty much of everything - books, old movies, politics and history, astronomy and philosophy etc. etc.
Along with that, I'm quite lazy and can have just stupid sens-less talks too, depends on mood
Your city, country and distance doesn't matter. My only request is to have sense of humor And prefer over 30y
So if you are feeling lonely or sad and need a friend online then just send me your Telegram id in private message.

p.s. definitely not interested in video sex chats lol
instead I could teach you Russian or help to practice your English

I am interested! Hahaha altho I am only 27 and I can't seem to private message you but I'm definitely interested to have a random chatmate hahahahaha

oh wow tuborgnew100 that would be quite nice although I have no idea how to PM you because I am totally a newbie in this forum hahahaha but I'd love to take you up on that offer

Hello everyone! Just entered this place via winning an invite thru email this month and I am so happy because this place is a treasure trove of gay joys! Hahahaha just recently got my share ratio up before I lose my download rights. Am enjoying exploring thru here and I hope to make new friends/chatmates as well. Would appreciate the welcome and love  :love: :love: :love: :hug:

Also an advanced Happy New Year to everyone here in the forums!