I have a younger man I'm dominating regularly and thinks are progressing into "darker territory" (choking, bondage, etc.)
Those dominating - do you use a safeword? We've always planned out what is going to happen and I would like to be more spontaneous, but I don't want to lose him.
I forgot, we/i use a non-sex safeword. Apelsin - its swedish for orange. So i can scream no to my husband and he can continue, but if i say Apelsin, he stops!
We do bondage, a little/light cbt, wet, spanking, and so on with me as a sub and he is my Master.
We live on the country and have a little farm. In the barn we have arranged a sexroom…