Hi, here i am posting my pic… It has just been taken... I hope you like it! I am very down today, so any positive comments will be wellcome... I am 41 years old and no boyfriend up today... Am I horrible or just I am unlucky?
Thanks.

Hi guys

I am a 41-year-old man from Spain. As time goes by, I become more and more aware of the difficulty of meeting a partner… I mean not a fuckmate ( which is quite easy to find, really ), but a serious person who can share strong feelings for me... As I am not a horrible dude ( I mean, I am not a Colt model man or similar, but a 167 cms tall and 74 kgs, hairy broad chest, nice love handles and training 4 days a week at a gym... no 6-pack abs ( snifff ) ), I wonder what´s wrong with me...
  I have tried to join Gay Clubs ( nobody seemed interested in me ), Date Apps ( Bearwww, Grindr,... ) and in the places I go: at the gym, everybody seems to be straight and the few gays training didn´t look at me twice. As I am "out" officially ( but with no special mannerisms or being the gay cliché ), I have never noticed any interest. Sometimes I wonder if I am really that odd or out of fashion, but I have noticed some gay men looking at me with great interest... but just that... looking at me with interest.
  What can I do? Some tips? I am sorry to be calling for an Agony Aunt... well, in this case, an Agony Uncle ( ).
  Can I improve my appearance? I am not ugly, I have a childish face with Brown eyes, although I have some receding hair and salt and pepper short beard...
  Any suggestion will be wellcome... Well, I mean to meet someone older than me... Not interested in Young boys... I need a mature men... It´s just the daddy crave, you know...
  Thank you!

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Thank you for the information. Here I am waiting for downloading. Until now, i can only seed to other people, but the most torrents are not working. I cannot download anything. It takes time, thanks,

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Ok, thanks… that´s true, to be myself is the key but i have had lots of chattings and when i showed my photo they said: oh, my Goodness, you are too thin to be a bear... or... oh, dear, you are too fat to be an otter... so, it is the same...
That´s nice to be here and listening to you, guys, because there are many people that they don´t know what they are talking about or if they try to label people into categories...
i´m hairy and proud of being hairy... i´m overweight and proud of being "beefy and stout"... i´m bald with a goatee and proud of my salt and pepper hair... but... you know... the majority of people in my country ( a small island in Spain ) are very prone to categorize everything and i am a free soul but living in such a "narrow-minded" context hurts a Little...
Hugs to everybody Reading this post and answering... You are really so kind!

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I have been told that I am too thin to be a bear but too stout to be a hunk… As I am 167 cm tall, quite shortish and have a baby face ( with a slight shadow of goatee style beard ), I need some help. What kind of gay am I? An otter, a bear, a cub, a musclebear ( hahahha ),... or an alien?
Hope you like my photo.
Hugs from Spain!

Hi guys
I have watched some films which featured Bam, the black stallion, and for sure he´s got a cock to die for… But when looking at reviews and photographs from his Bam Huge Dildo ( by Doc Johnson ), I have noticed that the real Bam is in fact quite smaller than the dildo.
Does anybody has this dildo and know something about that? I´m quite curious...

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Well, I´m a 39 year-old cub from Spain, with hairy chest and back, crew-cut hair and Brown eyes. I am a bottom. I have always been interested in Domination, but the few experiences I have had were not what I was expected. First of all, there´s a lot of people who tells you: " I am a master" and then, just sit down on a couch and say: " Suck it". That´s what I have found. Or some people who uses you to cook his breakfast and then after letting you suck his dick, stands up and says: " Well, i have an appointment… We´ll be in touch".
I have to be very sincere and, of course, I´m aroused with special sex which includes watersports, wrestling and dirty talk. But, on the other hand, I cannot find the person to share this. And I think there´s a big difference between being a slave and being a sub. I prefer to play daddy-son games. My face is quite childish although my body is hairy and stout ( I go to the gym three times a week ) and I have a very sweet voice. So I´m quite the boy for a DADDY, I mean a real Daddy!
I don´t like being tied, but being hold by my man´s arms. I don´t like being kidnapped but being protected. I love being a pig for a horny daddy, I need hot and very spicy sex. I love feeling that I have to surrender to my man and that situation makes me feel very very excited. I know what role is mine: of course i´m not the master... but... Tell me...
  What am I searching for? Am I a sub? Am I a slave? Are my vision of sex BDSM or just another thing?
  I will appreciate any advice or comment.
  Thanks to all of you and Happy New Year!

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I´m a big fan of daddy Jay Taylor, who is absolutely hung and a aggressive top. He appears in a lot of Treasure Island Media. Anybody knows his size in girth and length?
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Hi, I am a 39-year-old spaniard who lives in an island, where is hard to find hot men for sex and a serious relationship. This is very frustrating as I would like to meet top men with body hair and a masculine attitude. Something really difficult to find in my city. I speak an average English and, of course, I´m a native speaker of Spanish but… After trying GRINDR, BEARXXX, and other apps ( which has been very disappointing ) I do not know what to do next... It seems very topical ( I know it ) but... Any ideas?
Hugs!