Posts made by jay1

average looking is hard to say
without seeing what you look like, average for me is not the same as average for you.

as for finding someone? just keep looking. there's someone for everyone and with apps, it's much easier today than before

NEVER

condoms, just easier to clean up

@raphjd:

Some recent studies say that the average 18 - 19 year old males masturbate 7.07 times per week.  The average 20 - 35 year old male does it 6.85 times per week, with the number being reduced by 1.2 times per week for every 10 years of age after that.  I haven't seen a study that breaks down the difference between hetero and gay, though.

If you ejaculate at least 21 times per month, you are 38% less likely to get prostate cancer than a male who ejaculates only 7 times per month.  Ejaculating 7 times a month makes you 15% less likely to get prostate cancer than someone who ejaculates 3 or less times per month.

not sure how ejac has anything to do with prostate cancer

usually i have toys.
why buy toys if you don't use them?

if they have a 6pack, i don't care where they are from

@stealfire:

hot! r these models or real athletes?

does it matter?

they always have been

such horrible movies…

because that's the way i was made?

yay Canada is in the top 10

@yababylol:

Speaking for myself …. it definitely ramps up your kink factor quite a bit. The same ol' scenes don't quite do it for you anymore after some time, and you'll find yourself 'craving' certain types of scenes, certain types of performers, certain kinds of action, etc. Masturbation (I'm assuming most of us are doing this as we watch) is an easy, normal, healthy method to satisfy a basic human need, and using porn as an aid is no different from good-old fashioned imagination (which I can still use, all by itself, to jerk off) .... the older fantasies are buried after a while for the new thrilling stuff, whether it's in your head or on the computer screen.

Though, I also find that this doesn't translate at all to sexuality in the real world. Vanilla sex of the type I have in my real life would flat out bore me in a porn video, but it's fulfilling and exciting to me in the moment. Porn is so much about the fantasy and "idea" of what's going on ... maybe that's why it's so visual and repetitive. Personal sex is about living it yourself, and the physical sensations, and whatever connection you have to the other person.

Sometimes, if it's difficult for me to cum while I'm with a partner .... I'll think about a porn scene I like a lot to speed things up, and go there in my mind's eye. That's about the closest I can say to "impactful" it has been on my actual sex life (this is a well-known phenomenon even decades ago, well before the Internet), and I collect and watch a ton of it, because my libido is huge and I can't practically have sex four times a day.

I may be more willing to try things in porn than I might have been otherwise, but only that which looks practical and non-harmful to me.

There's nothing wrong with porn.
it gives you ideas and as mentioned above, helps speed things up when needed.
honestly, it's just easy and less dramatic. and with the help of the internet, a lot more private

@LEVI:

From reading the story it doesn't sound like rape, but it sounds like sexual assault.

i kinda agree on that one.
besides, who says "i didn't want to be mean?"
if someone was attempting to rape me, or do anything i didn't want… mean would be the last thing on my mind...

when you're that close up to someone, it's best to keep the eyes closed…

i don't know why people are so scared to talk about fetishes.
honestly, it's just something that turns one person on that could be considered unusual.
doesn't mean it's bad, and usually, variety is the spice of life

that's the fun of games.
truth or date
trip poker

things like that might help

that was a funny one

what makes you think they are all str8?

a man in sexy underwear is always a turn on.

it's all about the face