@indybr05 For me, I decided that it was safest if I could meet 1 or 2 guys max, to just keep them as sole fuck buddy[s]. At the moment, my guy & I stay strictly to one another. We feel that what is there that either of us can't get vs. a random dude in unsafe times?
That would be my advice. Plus, you have the freedom or oral or going bareback sex without worrying like a random hookup. Granted, both of you stay protected normal day to day.
Think of it this way If, If you feel comfortable them Nutting in your butt, then that's a good bro in my book....
Hope this helps!