I'm desi. Very hard to spot gay desis around my city. Most of them are closeted. 

@jojoholt:

my favorit porn star is barrett long (not hard to guess why  ;)) and i was just wondering if anyone knew if he was gay or straight. i mean yeah he does gay porn, but there are plenty of gay 4 pay guys out there. thanxx

I don't believe that these "gay4pay"s exist. They do it, cause they like and they get paid.

It is the psychology of the human brain to try and 'fit' in. No matter how hard everyone tries, not to fit in. If you think about it, everyone fits some stereotype or group. It's too bad that the media only focuses on those gay men who are flamboyant and well dressed, it doesn't really reflect the reality of the gay population. I guess that's why we have all been through that one phase in our lives when we keep wondering if a guy is "straight" or "gay".lol! If they were all the same, we wouldn't have that problem, would we? 

Eep. This reminded me that I have to study for my upcoming driver's license test next Friday! Too many rules to remember.

Just joined this website. Hello everyone!

I'm from India.