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I think you are overwhelmed by what you think you must feel according to the labels gay, straight or bisexual. I think you are also confused as to what culture you relate to and what behavioural norms you relate to.

One advice is, stop thinking about what you think you must feel or be. And start accepting your feelings as yours as you experiment, don't judge them, don't think they will affect or limit your future. When there is something you would like to achieve, you will a way regardless of you having a husband or a wife.

There is such a load on coming out and it really leaves much to the imagination of the people you are coming out to. It also really depends on how you come out. In essence you are telling them you are humping guys. But if you tell them you have been dating this guy, that wants to meet them, then it all becomes more real and they may understand that you and the guy you're dating are just regular dudes.

I agree and there are so much more shades to it than the ones you outlined too. E.g. Asexual, demisexual, pansexual, sapiosexual, hetero/homoflexible, queer.

But these terms are all labels through which we can generalize our emotional/sexual attraction to explain it to other people and to relate. If you know how you feel, and it's not covered by a term, then it still exists, because you feel that way.

I came out as gay, but that's because I always knew I liked men. For most of us it feels so permanent, but honestly I feel that it limited me to feel/be whatever I feel. Just the last year or so I have also opened my mind to the possibility of a (sexual) connection with females. It's kind of tricky, because I don't hope this is the internal homofobia in me speaking that is hoping for a "normal" future.. Main point I think is just be openminded.