As a photographer I have taken both stills and movies of people having sexual fun, but ALWAYS with their permission or most often at their request. Only on those occasions where the performances were intended for publication have I uploaded them to the web at the direction and permission of those depicted. The vast majority of my images and films remain the property of the people concerned to do with what they wish.
Would I trust a stranger to keep a sex film to themself? No!
Thanks for that, very entertaining. :cheesy2:
It is sad that there is nothing you can do about it. I suppose there are millions who would undo that little snip if there were a way-back pill or something.
Next best thing is to enjoy all dicks, savouring the uncut ones, but on the whole having fun. In the great scheme of things it really doesn't matter one way or the other. :blind:
This man was found guilty then given an indeterminate sentence. The sentence for murder in Britain is life, but judges usually declare a certain number of years in prison, thereafter release on licence. The offender then has to report to police, stay in a known location, and be monitored for suspicious behaviour.
In Stephen Port's case this will almost certainly mean he will be in prison until he dies. This is rare in Britain. He is unlikely ever to be considered to be safe for release.
His offending was less to do with sexual gratification than a result of his psychopathic nature. Not all psychopaths are murderers, but almost all mass murderers are psychopaths.
It all comes out. Top button undone, zipper down, kit out free. I'm not concerned about if others see it, it's up to them if they want to look, I love the freedom. :cheesy2:
Another vote here for Berlin. I was in Hamburg, anything goes type of place, BUT some of the older generation are uptight about any sort of sexuality. It is not all fun outside the Reeperbahn.
Amsterdam is very expensive & commercial, Paris is better, but other parts of France can be patchy.
Here in the UK, some local government agencies in London are killjoys, clamping down on anything that's fun. There are still loads of places to go, but there is a wind of right-wing change blowing. Manchester, Leeds, Blackpool, and Newcastle are OK.
I would enjoy that.
The person below has not been circumcised.
This was a bit of a concern when I first started giving oral as a teenager. I used to use my hand wrapped around the other chap's cock as a kind of depth check; I could set the exact depth before the gag reflex then no more. As I became more expert I didn't need to do this as the reflex became suppressed whilst joy increased.
Keep at it, you will become better as you go on. Best thing, enjoy it, give him pleasure whilst having a great time yourself. Work towards the deep throat, keep him in anticipation, play with the glans, slide the foreskin back and forth, go deeper with each stroke then draw back. Let the end come out of your mouth then tickle the end with your lips and tongue briefly before more lip action, getting gradually deeper every time.
BEWARE - teeth are the enemy.
Maybe once a fortnight. Where I live there are two to choose from. One is big and sprawling, so lots of walking, the other is compact but on three storeys, so lots of stairs to climb.
I always go with the expectation of just chilling and sweating a bit. If sexy action happens so much the better, but best not to walk in desperate.
Some days it is quite amusing. The "in-crowd" arrive and we have a fashion parade without the clothes. Look at me! Me! :cheers:
Best to be in charge of yourself. If you want safe sex then only accept that. No compromise.
I always have fun, by which I mean happy enjoyment. I come away clean and refreshed, sometimes with a smile on my face. :cheesy2:
I've been around the block a few times, so have no illusions. Most people on the Gaydars Squirts, and Scruffs of this world are there for a quick shag at best, or a sneering browse at worst. So I have come to a few, perhaps jaded, conclusions.
If you are more than 40, beware; there's no fool like an old fool. Those winking twinks, gagging for your favours, are seldom what they seem.
If you are looking for a long term relationship, skip the sites. Chat to people at the bus stop, corner shop, or join a club. If you share an activity (stamp collecting, motorbike racing, scuba diving etc.) you are more likely to click.
95% of datesite users cannot accommodate. Why? Partners? Wives? Lodgers? Stranger Danger? So, if you are one of those who can you will become instantly attractive to others. Beware; inviting others (unknown others) into your house is a risk. Do some research before inviting. Perhaps meet them in a public place first. Take a photo of them, their car and anything else that could identify them later if things turn nasty. If you do let them into your place, make it tidy. Hide all the expensive stuff away. Remove temptation of that sort.
Be realistic. There will be some people who mess around. They may agree to meet, but make an excuse just before the time. Work, the wife, family crisis, sick dog. The list is endless. So you reschedule only to discover that the day before they caught the cold from hell. So it goes. Be kind, some of it may be true, but only allow three no shows before you quit that avenue. If they just don't turn up, leaving you high and dry, then call it a day just then. There is no excuse for such bad manners.
So, in conclusion, the answer to the question, Dating websites? Yay or nay? I have to say yay, but don't expect much more than an occasional no strings shag and be prepared for some odd timewasting folk.