This doesn't really bother me. It is a style they are into. I listen to industrial music and very rarely hear a pop song I can get into, that being said, I have no qualms about going to "cliche" gay bars because I'm an open minded person. Most of the guys I meet tend to be pretty open minded but enjoy the style they're in.
I also live just outside of NYC, which has a pretty large gay community, so I may be a bit spoiled here.