Posts made by bob85

Nope, PIZZA!

TPBM has had sex at least once this month

Water polo. Not a huge fan for very beefy guys like bodybuilders… but that's just me.

jello or pudding?

Leonard Nimoy

Star Trek or Star Wars?

A few close friends and one of my cousins. I'm working on it though.. progress.

Live theatre

Pet fish or bird?

I do have a kinky side, but masks isn't part of it 

TPBM enjoys a little 'kink'

^Great answer guys! That's what I was going for  ;D

No, haven't ridden in an ambulance before

TPBM plays a major sport

I'd choose the "not quite enough" option. I, myself, am not into fashion and I'd prefer to have my boyfriend not as well. It would remind me of dating someone from Project Runaway… Nothing against them, I'm just not a fan myself.

iphone or galaxy?

Many times!

TPBM is a doctor or studying to become one

I don't normally know or pay attention to that sort of thing. I guess if I found out an anchor I'm watching did pass away, then I might feel a little uncomfortable watching the video. But it's sort of the same thing as watching any sort of movie in which an anchor or actress died. I don't feel bad watching moves featuring Robin Williams even though he's dead.

@Frederick:

I have noticed that in straight porn, even if the guy is very good looking, they barely show the guy's face and body at all. 
However, in streaming live webcam sites, when they have a straight couple screwing and the guy is very attractive, the audience is mostly focused on the GUY! 
I suspect that a lot of men watching "straight porn" are using it as an excuse to check out guys.

Interesting… they could be, but then again... how would we know which person on the screen the viewer is looking at the most?  ???

@mattb36469:

I am with you on that… there is a studio called something like Straight porn for gay eyes... focues more on the man.

I totally know what you're talking about! I've watched that many times, it's great!

I don't have a "six pack" per say (although I'm working on it), but I haven't been complimented by a few when at the gym.

TPBM is catching the cold 

RPG

Short hair or long hair (on guys)?

To be honest… when I watch straight porn, I ALWAYS focus on the guy. I basically disregard the women in those videos because they do nothing for me. I have watched lesbian porn before, but I very rarely get aroused.

Just curious about others on this site. Ever watch straight or lesbian porn? Strictly gay porn?

Dynasty Warriers

chess or checkers?

Hmmm… No problem that I can think of. Sometimes my feet get dry lol

TPBM made a snowman this year!

The ACT of being gay (or straight) is a choice. I can choose to be intimate with a women, but that doesn't truly make me straight. Likewise, a straight guy could choose to have sex with another guy, but it doesn't necessarily mean he's gay.

A lot of people think it's a choice because they are equating "being gay" to having sex and/or seeking romantic relationships with someone else of the same sex. In most cases, actions ARE choices… so people who think one-dimensional and only believe being gay is strictly an act (having sex) will certainly think that it's a choice to be gay. That's where the confusion comes in to play.

However, the mere presence of having same-sex or opposite-sex sexual attraction is NOT a choice. I am strongly attracted to the male physique and get aroused by their bodies, but I didn't choose that. Straight men are attracted to women's bodies (boobs, vaginas, their curves, etc.), and they certainly didn't "choose" that attraction. Neither of those are choices.

So, depending on how you define being gay or straight, it could be choice and it could not be a choice.

Christianity hasn't died, but is declining. I think it'll take MANY centuries for it to truly "die".

I come from a large family (30+ cousins on one side) and I suspect a couple to be gay, although I don't ask because it's not my business.

I'm still in the closet and my family doesn't suspect anything, so no one in my family is "openly" gay.