I just use a VPN and change my IP addy to get around that.

@PetShopBoys:

Ugh. Dating.

For the longest, I've considered myself to be a pretty romantically minded individual. But let's face it. Relationships just don't last anymore. Especially when it comes to gay men. Of course, that's a wide generalization because there are plenty of gay couples who have been together for eons. But most of the ones I see come to a screeching halt. I know my relationships all have. Is it even worth it to try? Why put all your effort into something that's doomed to fail?

Well with that outlook no wonder they fail. You go into them expecting them just because your past ones have.  YOu don't think that make a diff and the other person will eventually feel that negative energy?

Everyones prostate is not exactly in the same place.  Yes the general area most of the time but all bodies are different.  Do you know where your own special spot is? Have you found it when you masturbate so you know how to direct the person to hit it? Or you making sure its getting hit?  You need to learn your own body before expecting someone else to.

@santiego:

It is possible to know you're gay even if you're a virgin or haven't had a same-sex physical relationship. Being gay isn't just about sex; it is about emotion. Just like straight people, gay people fall in love and have long-lasting, meaningful relationships. Physical attraction is just one indicator of sexual orientation.

This was the only decent answer.  All the others just had to do with sex. And just because a guy gets hard watching gay porn or with a guy means nothing. Look at all the closeted gay men that have sex with women constantly. Doesn't mean they are str8 or bi.  Its way  more then a physical.  Its an emotional and physical combination